2007-10-15 14:10:18 · 26 answers · asked by Rocky 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just wait. what's the rush in telling them now? it'll give you time to sort out exactly how to approach it, as well as to figure out your true feelings.
2007-10-15 14:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by lostintranslation 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your family acceptance but, the people you live with might go crazy.You should tell your family because they might find out sooner or later.Or you should say there a friend i know that is a bi sexual, so he tolled me to ask you what would you say if i was a bi sexual, if they be like your not a bi sexual are you u should say no and ask them the question again nd if they don't care tell them if the do care and if it hurts them don't tell them.
2007-10-15 21:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by dzyre l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, take some time and think over it. I guess you can try to "change" by joining one of those "expert" groups supposedly turn you make to hetersoexual.
But experts delude themselves. I'm serious.
Your parents are mosty likely not to disown you or anything like that coz to parents, losing your child is the worst thing they can do.
And since you still have a 50% chance of marrying a girl, your family won't have the reactions of a gay person's family's reaction, if you know what I mean.
Don't be afraid. Have confidence. Be proud of yourself.
2007-10-15 21:16:52 · answer #3 · answered by shadow_wolf1211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are afraid they will freak out then do what I do, I don't plan on telling my family I am bi unless I have to, which means if you start dating a guy and it gets serious then that is when you would tell them, if you get into a serious relationship with a girl, just go with it, and vice versa.
2007-10-15 21:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by rcasays 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one needs to know if you don't want them to. That is a private matter that is ok to keep to yourself. Why would you have to say anything to your family anyway? Find a support group of this matter to help you if you need to tell or open up about it. That is safe and no one can judge you if they don't like it. A friend of mine opened up about it and she did not get the reaction from family or friends like she was hoping for, so I would leave it alone and keep it to yourself and enjoy it privately. "What they don't know won't hurt them."
2007-10-15 21:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by Dana B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you figure out that your gay,lesbian,bisexual,whatever...before you tell anyone you must first be comfortable in your own skin.Listen,when I first discovered that I was gay I didn't automatically say I'm telling the whole world that I'm gay know because I knew I wasn't comfortable yet telling everybody that I was gay so I took as long as I needed until I was ready to tell everybody that I was gay,but if you feel that you feel comfortable with your self and to tell your family no matter the reaction then your ready and you know they give you **** then tell them to F@$k off.
2007-10-15 21:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should still tell them but sit down and try to tell them easily dont just pop out with it unless their spontanious type people but only you know how your family is, your gonna have to take the chance. You dont want them to find out from some source other than you
2007-10-15 21:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by cindy s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a choice. Live a lie, or live the truth and trust your family. If they cannot accept you, perhaps you would be better to move out of town. So move to a new city, live your life, and keep it separate from them until you raise the courage to tell them.
2007-10-15 21:13:53 · answer #8 · answered by GoGo Girls 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell someone you know you can trust thats really close to you like your sister or something and see what that person says more than likely she has to act like your mom just a little cause she is her daughter but yea and however she reacts that more than likely how your mom would react or you could just wait til u turn 18 and tell dem u gone what u wanna du cuz u a grown *** what ever u are
2007-10-15 21:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by quanna_lady_a_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family is supposed to love you no matter what, they may disagree but if that's how you are then there's nothing they can do about it. I think that when the time comes you should tell them because it must be a heavy burden to keep that a secret.
2007-10-15 21:13:47 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't wait, this is 2007 and sexual orientation isn't as shocking as it was 20 years ago. chances are they probably already have the idea and are waiting on you to tell them. you can't deny who you are so don't put off being all you can be!
2007-10-15 21:14:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋