first off, how old are you?
how would you feel and react to being referred to as a MILF by:
1) a fairly good looking guy who looks like he's in his 30s.
2) a not so good looking guy who looks like he's in his 30s.
3) a fairly good looking guy who looks like he's in his teens.
4) a not so good looking guy who looks like he's in his teens.
if any, which would you find the most flattering? explain.
2007-10-15 14:05:09 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
sarah a lot of women don't feel that way. and it is somewhat hard for me to believe there are women who wouldn't be completely flattered by their son's friends coming on to them. i think that whole degradation crap only applies when it's a guy they don't find above their standards(which includes most guys their age and older).
2007-10-15 14:19:17 · update #1
I'll be 29 in November and I'm a mom... the term only applies to mom's (Mother I Like to F*ck?). You do know what it stands for, don't you?
No thank you from any man on that pathetic excuse for a compliment. Age or looks matter not, the fact that the comment is vile and degrading to women is enough to make up my mind about him.
Edit: You know, life is not like an American Pie movie. Women who respect themselves don't appreciate that kind of degredation.
Perhaps you're young, so let me explain. Some women may feel flattered if a younger guy found them to be attractive. Who doesn't want to be perceived as attractive? But no, women do NOT want their child's friend to come on to them. No, intelligent women do not like to be reduced to sex objects. There is no phenomena of women old enough to have teenage sons who go lusting after their sons friends. You must be thinking of Jerry Springer panelists, not average women.
Self respecting women don't appreciate being called MILFs. You want to belive what you to believe and that's fine, but expect to make the average woman very displeased with that "compliment." It has zero to do with the appearance or age of the guy and everything to do with the fact that it's just a degrading term.
In other news: "hot piece of *ss" or referring to her sexy body parts? You might want to reconsider those as well.
2007-10-15 14:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Quoted from OP:
"sarah a lot of women don't feel that way. and it is somewhat hard for me to believe there are women who wouldn't be completely flattered by their son's friends coming on to them. i think that whole degradation crap only applies when it's a guy they don't find above their standards(which includes most guys their age and older)."
Are you ready to rethink this since not one woman yet has said she would like this? One said flattered a little but mostly uncomfortable. That was as close as you got to what you're looking for. Sorry, buddy, but Sarah is speaking for most women, we aren't aroused by your adolescent behavior.
2007-10-16 20:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by starrystarrynight 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never be flattered to being called a MILF! It's completely disrespectful and ridiculous! If anyone would find this as a compliment she needs to realize she is worth more than that.
2007-10-16 10:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm 37 and I have been "hit on" and referred to as a "MILF" by my son's 17 year old friend, and two of my daughter's 14 year old friends. Flattering? Maybe, but only a little, but mostly it's just uncomfortable to know they see me that way, since I'm twice their age. Makes for uncomfortable situations when I have to see them face to face.
2007-10-15 21:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are you saying that the guy in question finds the woman in question attractive?
Well, I'll tell you what, no man worth his salt would ever EVER say that where the woman could hear it. But then you are referring to adolescent boys that don't know any better aren't you? If one said as much to me, I'd likely slap him. Not that he'd learn anything, but it would make me feel tons better. It is NOT flattering to say such a thing to a woman, or a mother for that matter. It is disrespectful and crude. NO, I would not be in the least flattered.
2007-10-15 21:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Coming from any guy using these words, I'd be disgusted because I'd feel like just a piece of meat, and it's immature..
Have been told politely a few times that I'm pretty/attractive, but the best compliment so far was someone said yesterday that I had a wicked sense of humor. I was so chuffed.
I'm married, but if someone pays me a compliment, guy or girl, I still feel good, but the best compliments are about personality.
2007-10-15 23:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shivers 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
the only person that could get away with referring to me a MILF is my husband.
i'm 28
2007-10-16 18:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ember Halo 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm a few months shy of 25...but I'm guessing in a few months my reaction will still be disgust. I like men with tact. Anyone who would say that to a woman just seems clueless. Why not just bang your club on a rock and scream "Og want sex!"
2007-10-15 22:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Priscilla B 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I would be flattered if any of those youngsters thought of me as a MILF..but at 48, I would probably be called a GILF...a gramma I'd like to.....ha.
2007-10-16 21:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by zen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
MILF = Mom I'd Like to F***, for those of you who do not know
2007-10-15 21:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋