well im married for 2 and half years and im in need for words i dont know what to do cause its been like a month since i left to oregon wich i know live and i lived in az for 2 and half years but my wife its over there and im here we love each other but we want to spend a while with our familys and i want to be with her what should i do move back to az or move to other state with me and her or what i need opinions ?
2007-10-15 13:55:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Married people belong together. It is that simple. If you can't work and live in Arizona then she needs to come to you where ever you are living and working. You can always visit your families on vacations. If you want your marriage to last you will be together no matter what.
2007-10-15 14:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you and your wife need to discuss and compromise on.
But I will tell you this, taking her away from her family (I assume they're in AZ) is not going to help your cause. Bring her to OR where she has no friends, no job, no family--that will spawn bad attitude and emotional upset very quickly.
If you really want her, you've got to be able to sacrifice for her. Bend over backwards if you have to. But make sure the feeling is mutual. A one-way loveathon is not what you're after.
TX Mom
not an expert
2007-10-15 14:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋