When you have no friends?

Question

How do you learn to trust again and let someone in to talk?

Answer 1

You seem as though everyone has deserted you. I take it that you have suffered a broken relationship? You are bound to feel "Down" . . . for a while. Let me assure you; there are good people around and there are not so good people. You have to get back into the swim (like a fish). This means mixing with groups of others. Where? Learn something at Night School, join a Dramatic/Operatic Society, join one of the political parties, join a Church . . . there really are many avenues. When you re-mix with people like this you will develop a better feel about them and there will be ones you really like. These likeable ones will also have a circle of friends and over months you will have a few new special friends from this. It's very similar to "Networking".
So put you glad rags on and venture out. YOU find friends NOT they find you . . just remember this as you go along.

Answer 2

I have a counselor and I hate to say it, but she is about the only one that I trust. I wish sometimes that I had friends, but I am so afraid of being let down by people that I just do not get involved with them at all. Maybe counseling would help you too. If you find the right person to talk to you will fell better beyond your wildest dreams. Good luck!

Answer 3

I try to trust people until they give me a reason not to but I'm cautious in what I give away until they have proven themselves to be trustworthy!! I can't imagine going through life without friends in it so you have to have some give somewhere!! If it's in a relationship situation I am not so easy there, I've been hurt to many times to trust someone that hasn't proven that I can!!

Answer 4

Don't jump in with both feet to trust someone new. Take your time and get to know them first. People always let you down and it hurts. Just be careful. Take care.

Answer 5

when you have no friends you need to learn to be open and let people try to be your friend. you will eventually learn how to trust that person. but if you arent open to new people you wont ever be able to trust again

Answer 6

you don't i had so many really good friends betray me now i stay to myself. I still have friends but its just on hang out bases if I have a problem or need to talk to try to work it out on my own once someone breaks your trust its hard to trust again

Answer 7

Start with joining clubs that would attract people of integrity. Maybe a good youth group at church, a club which reaches out to the community to help others. You tend to find individuals who have higher character and are less shallow if you meet them in groups or organizations that help others.

Answer 8

Life is about taking chances, if we dont we will never know what couldve been. Sometimes we get vibes from other people, you will no if you are comfortable with a person to talk to them. Everyone we share important information with is not always family or friends, sometimes strangers. because we all need a sound board sometimes.

Answer 9

dont worry about it, my motto is "dont push it , dont force it let it happen naturally, and well thats it\!, u can trust me, but if you are still in woundology, u wont be up to, go steady, and allow the cosmic energy, or the great divine to give you the zest of life again, as be sure, it will return,i assure you.

Answer 10

just talk to people. join in conversations. gradually you will learn to weed out people who mean nothing but harm or grief to you. I understand, though. I thought it was a great idea to have a million friends, but gradually I realized that very few were actually friends. I'm in the process of "weeding" myself! good luck.