I've been married to my wife for 5 years, and i just want her to know that shes the only one & the only beautiful woman ever. She is afraid all men are the same, but i'm not. Shes the only one for me. How do I show her she is, wat is a good romantic way.
2007-10-15 06:56:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think of words to say that describe vividly your feelings.
Don't just say, "you're the only girl for me..."
Think about how amazed you are that she is with you, and how thankful, and your reaction when you see her. Then write it down, and memorize it. Use descriptions, like ".... when I see you you make me shudder... when we're apart, my heart aches... " and all that stuff.
I told mine that when I know I'm about to see her, it feels like the anticipation one gets at Christmas time, as the time for opening presents draws near. And then I told her that when she walks through the door, it's as if I just opened the presents and got everything I always wanted. That got her. :-)
Girls like sappy stuff. The sappier the better. If you aren't good at thinking up that stuff, copy! Look up James Taylor lyrics and romantic poetry. Pirate some lines, and change a few words. She'll never notice.
2007-10-15 07:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
After being married for 5 years and you are faithful and loving then why is your wife still questioning you? Either something is fishy about this question and you are not being honest or your wife has some bad insecurity issues. I have been hurt badly in the past by almost all the males I have encountered in my life however I am married to a man who I have no reason why I should not trust him. He comes home after work and is with me on the weekends. A woman knows when something is not right in the relationship. If you are telling the truth by saying you are a faithful man then I suggest you have her get councelling because your not going to want to put up with this for the rest of your life.
2007-10-15 14:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
honestly......if after 5yrs of being married to you she still feels this way than I don't think anything you do or say will help her to get over her way of thinking...I know this is so not what you want to hear, however I'm sure cause you sound so sincere and very sweet that you have been showing her and telling her for the past 5 yrs.....I don't think that planning a weekend get away, a cruise, a trip around the world for that matter will change her insecurities.... sorry but I'm not going to sit here and tell you to go buy her flowers and jewelery take her to a fancy dinner, cause the insecurities are hers.....all you can do is make sure that you keep being the best husband that you can be and never give her ANY reason to doubt your love and loyalty........good luck
2007-10-15 14:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too often men - and women also for that matter - think that romantic has to be hearts and flowers, diamonds and pearls, and so on , which is okay in a way, but to show a person you love them there are other day to day ways - for example, do the dishes for her as she watches tv, wash her car for her if it is dirty, do the laundry so that she doesn't have to and perhaps then a box of chocolates on the bed with a note saying now much you love that person. Remember that actions speak louder than words and a small dollar gift with a sentimental note can be more powerful than Superman himself!!
2007-10-15 14:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband says the same thing---he just reassures me, from time to time...do the little things for your wife that mean so much...send romantic card, send romantic/sexy ecard, surprise her with some flowes--hold hands with her and put your arm around her when seated in public. Women who have suffered some bad relationships might easily think all men are the same... and they are not all the same.
Just keep reassuring her in little ways---ask her to give you six months to keep an open mind and not be suspicious----do all those little things and then ask her what she thinks.
God bless.
2007-10-15 14:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by skyward 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her just like you told us. Honesty is your best bet. Just let her know how much she means to you and find out what you could do for her to make her feel more special. Don't just assume that you know what she'd like--ask her what you can do for her on a daily basis that would make her feel that love you have for her.
2007-10-15 17:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her for dinner then make reservations for a one night on a very nice and luxurious hotel, take her there after dinner and listen to your favorite music, tell her how you feel and how special she is to you... She will know trust me.... after that just LOVE AND ROMANCE !!!!
Good luck!
2007-10-15 14:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
d@mn if you have been married for 5 yeaers then what is it that you are doing to make her still think all men are the same? She should know by now that you are different..
Thats just weird to me.. i dont know what else to say.. 5 years!!!
2007-10-15 14:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by I DONT CARE 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
They Love second honeymoons in some city she has always wanted to go to...
2007-10-15 14:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by DanD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋