I am divorced with a 6 year old son, my ex is being a jerk to our son, I want to file for full custody. My question is my boyfriend has a history nothing violent, a couple DUI's from over 5 years ago. Will this come into play if I go to file for full custody? I want to leave my bf out of this but just to be a bigger jerk my ex is going to try and do something to screw up my new life.
2007-10-15 06:56:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your ex can say all he wants about the new b/f...but the judge won't listen to him unless he is hurting your child. no judge will rule in any favor just because someone has moved on with their lives. it doesn't work that way. so anything he submits pretaining to your boyfriend, will be disregarded.
the DUI's won't do anything unless the child was in the vehicle at the time he was pulled over. request for "no alcohol 12 hours prior having the child within custody" anyway.
so no worries.
and he can't get a change of custody unless he proves you to be an unfit parent. this means you have to be involved in drugs, Child Protective Services have had to interfere, violent police record, your child has no medical attention, and is malnourished. moving on with your life is not cause to lose custody, much unlike my ex thought as well. (idiot).
do keeo in mind that you will most likely get full physical custody and joint legal custody (it just means he has access to school and medical records)
2007-10-15 07:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your ex is being a jerk to your son, that alone is reason to get full custody and if your ex tries to say or do anything, you can perhaps turn the tables on him if you can list ways and times that he was a jerk to your son and ask for supervised visits or even permission to leave Michigan - not a lot here worth staying for anymore with the economy the way it is and little or no chance of it getting any better. Get an attorney and go for the custody.
Good luck to you!!
2007-10-15 07:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
except you'll a few what end up that she is a foul mom in court docket, bringing that up is unnecessary and may have little concerning youngster aid. in such a lot state, if you're caring for the youngster for a quantity of years and/or the youngster thinks you're their father then you definitely pay youngster aid. irrespective of DNA evidence that you're now not the daddy.. how ancient is the youngster.. you assert you've been along with her for over 12 years and that she instructed her 19 yr ancient daughter this,, is the daughter 19.? when you have raised this youngster for over 12 years, you're her father and will have to pay youngster aid.. the mummy mendacity is incorrect however don't take it out at the youngster..
2016-09-05 10:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not familiar with the particular laws... but I do know that in custody matters EVERYTHING comes into play....
2007-10-15 07:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by vaughnc5920 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer.
2007-10-15 07:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋