viewing adult content images or slides on the internet? My cousin has a thirteen year old son that she is unaware of what he is doing, but I know of it. Walked in on him and briefly saw the image of a girl before he quickly closed the window. Should I inform her of it and tell her that she needs to have a talk with him about it, or leave it alone?
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2007-10-15 06:48:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
we all did this out of curiosity at this age. i know i did. i was curious to see what a penis looked like. it's no biggie. if it weren't for sex, we wouldn't be here
2007-10-15 06:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
I have 2 teenage son's and there are just some things a Mom doesn't want to know!! If they look, they look, and I don't think it will warp them into little perverts or anything. If you feel there might be a security issue, I would tell the DAD, (if he's involved with the kids, that is) since this might embarrass the h.ell out of this kid for Mom to approach him. Otherwise, let well enough alone :)
2007-10-15 13:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by bijou 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for kids that age to be horny & curious but at the same time she may not like the fact that her son is looking up porn & that may not fit the moral standards of her household. While masterbation is normal, I don't think this computer thing is a good idea. He may get the wrong idea about sex. I think you should tell her so she can at least put some child blocks on the computer.
2007-10-15 13:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should just forget it. He is at an age when like most teenagers are curious about that sort of thing. It's all a part of growing up really.
I didn't have the internet in my teens but if I came across a saucy mag...I'd have a quick peek.
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2007-10-15 15:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Afi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know, then let her decide how to handle it. It's natural at that age in a way, but then there are some things he could be exposed to on the internet that just ain't natural...and it could lead a young man down the wrong path or feed impulsiveness.
2007-10-15 13:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I looked at everything like that when I was that age. I grew up in a very conservative christian homeschooling house. I got in seroius trouble for a few times and my parents made me go through counseling at the church.
The approach she needs to use is tell him all the personal feminine hygene things that women go though. It worked for my co-workers son.
2007-10-15 13:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Robbie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yikes, you need to either talk to the kid or your cousin...seems you would be responsible in telling your cousin . Kids are curious and they'll do that when they can get away with it, it's normal. So I guess you need to weigh your options , who would it be best to talk with the kid or the cousin. It might have been their first time and they just got caught...maybe speaking with the kid would be a good idea...think about it.
2007-10-15 13:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Whoa Baby Whoa! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough call.....
Even if you told, would that change anything?
If the mom was all that concerned about what her son was doing on the computer, she would monitor his use of the computer, however, it's apparent she doesn't. Therefore, imo, it's not going to change anything, the son will continue to view what he wants, knowing his mom will do nothing.
2007-10-15 13:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by deiracefan_219 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
probably nothing. It's quite normal that a teenage boy would be looking at stuff like that. I think all of my friends and I did at some point and he should eventually outgrow it. I would only worry if you notice he's spending all his free time on the computer and no lnger interacting with actual people.
2007-10-15 13:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by bucky 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
have a little chat with him and let him know what you saw and tell him that if you catch him again, you'll tell his mum, also have him remove any images from the computer before she finds them herself....he's way too young to be looking at images like that....if you catch him again, then tell his parents....give him the benefit of the doubt first....
2007-10-15 13:56:28 · answer #10 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its normal sure you should talk to him and tell him about internet FREAKS and Strangers and all so he doesen't give some 40year old guy his address thinking its a 13 year old girl .......know what i mean ?
2007-10-15 13:58:07 · answer #11 · answered by Cassie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋