He was in for 3 years he was caught transporting weed and coke. He does not do drugs and was not selling them either--he needed money and he chose the wrong way of going about it. He has 3 kids --the mother is not in the picture--his mother has custody because he just got out of prison--he lives with his mother and is taking care of his children. He has a stable honest job now. He knows what he did was stupid--and has learned from his mistakes. My ex husband does not want our child around him. My child spent some time with him and his kids before my ex put his foot down. My child really cliked with him amd his children. I know that it will take some time for him to earn people trust back because of what he did. Everyone makes stupid mistakes. I don't feel he is any harm to me or my child.
2007-10-15 06:24:16 · 14 answers · asked by Red 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
talk to a laywer I think he did his time and your ex can't stop you form seeing him as long as you know thats what he did to go to jail!!
2007-10-15 06:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
If you want to keep custody of your child you may have to stop seeing him.
Your ex can take you back to family court and make a case that your judgement is clouded and that you do not have the best interest of your child in mind because you are dating a felon.
You could end up on the losing end of this because the court may impose and strip you of custody and order you to have supervised visits if you insist on seeing this person.
It is a hard choice but you must do what is in the best interest of the child and not see this person anymore.
Good Luck
2007-10-15 06:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by bernie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly no Your x can bring you back to work and say you have your kids in an unsafe environment, that being said you might have a case worker who will come to your house and check things out and decide. If this guy gets caught selling drugs or having drugs in his possession around your child you can lose your kid. Just be wise and be aware of your surroundings. My x husband sold drugs and was arrested and came back and lived with me and our kids and I never had any problems.
2007-10-15 06:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by shorte716 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The court can absolutely agree with your ex about your new relationship and allow your ex full custody. Honestly, I don't blame your ex one bit. There are so many things out there that can harm a child...why put someone or something there on purpose?
2007-10-15 06:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While having a record is not in and of itself grounds to lose custody, because he is still on probation and you choose to allow him around your children, you are giving the court (and your ex) even more control over the children.
No one can tell you yes or no in your situation. However, all otheer facts being equal, allowing your children around an ex felon still on probation may tip the scales in your ex's favor.
2007-10-15 07:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by hexeliebe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can be taken, if he is caught doing that stuff around your child and you would be responsible, because you allowed the man to come near your kid.
And do you want somebody who was in that kind of like having any kind of influence on your child? Seriously think about what you are doing here.
The drug life is NOT pretty and people don't just quit over night. Hell people in prison can still get stuff.
2007-10-15 06:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Soda 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your kids can NOT be taken away just because the man was in prison. The courts would require proof that this man is a threat in some way.
2007-10-15 06:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't blame your ex one bit. I can't understand why you want this for your child let alone yourself. Mistake or not it will follow him the rest of his life and I know I'd never ever let an exconvict into my childs life. Kids have it tough enough. What will you do if someone from the past decides to even some score or something??
2007-10-15 06:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by Brianne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
confident. this is criminal. first and leading: the instructor isn't a regulation enforcement officer. The shape does not furnish direct secure practices against unlawful searches and seizures by potential of all and sundry different than government officers. And no, instructors and so on. are no longer government officers. Is it an actionable tort? nicely, in the event that they have published the coverage that thou wouldn't have cellular telephones and you have intentionally broken that, a useful guy or woman could nicely end which you haven't any longer any expectation of privateness in this situation. actually, you probable have not any privateness in anyway in something you convey onto campus with you, because of the fact the college has a valid activity in ensuring the secure practices of all scholars. They probable have a ideal to verify your telephone to confirm you're no longer dealing drugs, a gangbanger, have pr0n on your telephone, and so on. enable's say basically for a 2nd you could desire to convince a choose and/or jury that it became into an unwarranted invasion of your privateness. What genuinely harm have you ever suffered from it? The confiscation of your telephone - whilst it became into no longer allowed interior the 1st place? Did you lose business enterprise over it, had to circulate to treatment over it, or adventure actual emotional misery? Please. Now, as to "they does not prefer US..." nicely, pilgrim, many faculties do certainly have the archiving and inspection ability of each and every digital mail and internet web site visited with campus desktops. Even - according to danger extremely - for college and workforce. they have the ideal to be attentive to if their workers are goofing off on "business enterprise" time. according to danger they do no longer basically grab a instructor's telephone and start up leafing by it.... yet nonetheless, maximum instructors are smart sufficient to tutor their telephones off and placed them of their desks, and so on. finally, because you're a minor. because of the fact the college informed you so. you're able to in comparison to those solutions now. Wait 25 years and then tell me if i'm incorrect in putting forward that. Sorry, yet you're out of luck. life is so unfair, extremely once you're breaking the regulations. :(
2016-10-09 06:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by figurelli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is that you go to the Courthouse and read the transcript of his trial(s). That will give you a true picture of what happened. People who break laws also lie about it. You need to know for sure what is the truth. Go and find it in order to protect your kids.
2007-10-15 06:34:43 · answer #10 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as there is no danger to the child or neglect then no. If your man gets busted again and you are with him or your son is then yes. Dad has no say in who you see. Be cautious though. He was in prison and maybe you dont know the whole story.
2007-10-15 06:28:57 · answer #11 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋