I need some advice?

Question

I have been married for 13 yrs and just recently my husband moved out for no reason what so ever. He has not given my a reason as to why and he won't talk to me about it. We have 4 wonderful kids and they are hurting as well can someone give me some advice on what i can do to change the out come of this i don't want to go through a divorce and have to put my kids through that. Please just give me some type of advice or hope that i can work this out.

Answer 1

If he won't talk theres not much you can do at this point. Give him some space until he can talk to you about what's going on and then make your decision.

Answer 2

Well I don't think you have a choice in the divorce matter, it seems your husband has already made up his mind. The best thing you can do is just explain to your kids that there mom and dad love them very much and it had nothing to do with them. Then just try to make the best of a bad situation and try to keep the divorce as clean as possible.

I am sorry about your marriage, I hope things work out for the best.

Answer 3

Most people leave relationships because they are unhappy for some reason, need space and may want to move on.

I'm really sorry you and the kids are struggling with this... it would be fair of him and only right to talk with you and the kids about his decision.

it's hard to tell why he left.

no one wants to go through a divorce, but on the other hand, do you want to be married to someone who isn't happy in the relationship? i would not.

Answer 4

He left, because he has a sweetie.... simple, hon, simple. And he ain't talkin' because if it doesn't work out, he'll have you as the Jerk in Reserve, who is also in the dark...."Oh, I just need some space, I need some time...." Yeah, sure. Crap. Hire a PI and have him followed. If the guy can't get you photos or footage in 3 days, I'd be amazed.