okay..i do have dryness problem...so, it becomes so tuff to do intercourse with my husband...i am married but still virgin, he tried many time some times i get serious hurt or some times he cant enter even half inch due to dryness problem..i become wet due to his so long love making, but my wetness doesnt continues...now, i m thinking to do sex without condom..so that his wetness also can help a lot to make things easy..later for precaution i will take pill...what do u think, is this a helpful idea?
my husband doesnt want to use any Jelly or cream kindda stuff..
2007-10-15 04:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you are having sex and you are not on birth control, it is very likely that you will become pregnant. It is probably in your best interest to gain some experience sexually before becoming pregnant. That being said, I would not recommend sex without a condom. There are lubricated condoms that you can use which will probably help more than doing it without one. Also, try to discuss with your husband why he doesn't want to use some other form of lubricant during lovemaking. If you truly do have a dryness problem, it shouldn't be a relfection on him. He should make sure to give you plenty of time before he tries to have intercourse, as well, to make sure that you are fully aroused and relaxed.
I hope this helps!
2007-10-15 04:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by shortstacks04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could slip in a vaginal suppository before sex and your husband wouldn't know. Not that deception is a great way to start a marriage. But if he's wearing a condom, there's no way he would feel it.
Honestly, I would ask *why* he doesn't want to use any jelly or cream. If he can't enter you due to friction, then they will only help (if they are the right kind... specifically for sex). It may be that he's trying to find an excuse to take off the condom....?
In that case, if you are honestly convinced that you are both faithful (because you are gambling your lives on this when you get rid of the condom), you could always use another form of birth control. Like a diaphragm (old fashioned, but very practical!). Or the pill (but that messes with your whole body and may aggravate the dryness problem).
Good luck!
2007-10-15 05:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you don't use the pill "later for precaution" - you need to be on the pill BEFORE you have sex unless you want to get pregnant, because you can get pregnant the first time you ever have sex.
Secondly, he won't have much wetness until he ejaculates......which won't be until the end of sex, so it won't help with the initial stages.
Either use a pre-lubricated condom, or use KY jelly for extra lubrication (extra wetness). And tell your husband if he won't do it with KY jelly, then you won't do it at all!!
2007-10-15 04:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your sex is not done in a correct way. you should kiss, touch each other and... then your husband can enter his finger gently and move it in and out before entering the penis; it will help you to have a good sex.
2007-10-15 04:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by Doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get soem lube...its the only thing that will help with internal dryness
2007-10-15 04:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by psucaspurr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KY Jelly.
2007-10-15 04:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋