each other?
2007-10-15 04:00:38 · 18 answers · asked by Lady M 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
the main reason is because a woman thinks a man will change and he doesn't and a man thinks a woman will never change and she does.....:)
2007-10-15 04:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by bernman101 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because after a while both people forget how to fight with dignity and grace. Both want be 'right' instead of 'correct'. Arguing happens in all relationships, but 'hitting below the belt', straying off the subject, bringing up past arguments that have (hopefully) already been resolved is 'unfair' fighting. This causes resentment and competition, each having the 'need' to be right. Listen to each other give their opinion. Then try for a compromise, be correct, not right. That way small battles never become a War.
2007-10-15 11:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by jjoy4444 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor communication and/ or personality differences. It's two seperate individual with different thoughts, opinions and feelings. They must communicate between each other effectively and put effort into understanding what the other person wants and needs from the relationship. Most people just focus on trying to get their side heard in an arguement so it ends up with two yelling people, instead of two people who want to know how to help their partner get what they need.
2007-10-15 14:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by psychgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fuzzie B hit it right on the head. Selfishness, pure and simple. One or both parties aren't willing to compromise and make sacrifices. Both compromising and sacrifice are vital in any marriage. It's a lot of hard work. There are always going to be bad times.
2007-10-15 11:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't just marriage...relationships can be like that as well. my last one (since i have never been married) was a war because he got lazy and refused to do anything to help out around the house, even tho he was living there...he wouldn't help w/ the bills, he came in w/ muddy boots on and refused to clean it up...all because he wanted a "mommy" not a girlfriend. some one to cook for him, do his laundry, take care of other "things"...but when it came to what i wanted, it didn't matter to him.
2007-10-15 11:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Niffer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't but it does, and that can destroy a marriage if left unchecked. This world is too hard to deal with and fight each other at the same time.
2007-10-15 11:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage doesn't have to be a war and life does not have to be a constant battle.
2007-10-15 11:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is because both thinks of their rights not about responsibilities towards each other.Secondly if they have very strong bonds of love they can slowly develop a long life relationship of love and understanding with sacrifices of personal interests and develop mutual interests.
2007-10-15 13:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tehseen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because people foolishly believe that their "Love" will change them. When in actuality when the "Lust" wears off you see each other how you really are ......In this Corner ..... The Big Boy from Brooklyn ..... and in the opposite corner is Lady M ....from Manhattan.
2007-10-15 11:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Ronatnyu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Natural sweetheart
2007-10-16 01:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋