OK, I can't tell you how many women I have heard say "Ohh he is such a pig!!!" when a guy is looking at ther butt or breasts. They seemed totally annoyed by it. But I see the same women posting pics of themself on myspace humping poles and walls and wearing thin shirts with no bras and wetting it and then I read responses like "OHHH YOU'RE SO HOT!! I WANNA F*** YOU!!" I have heard so many women upset if she walks past a guy and he totally looks at her rear. Personaly , Im married so I only find it flattering when I see men checking me out or I even get complimented on my looks and I am absolutely positive they have checked out the other views!!! I have had men say "Man your body is hot!!!" and Im not the least bit upset by it. I hope to hear those results because I work hard for it. Now me gettng upset about it and then posting sexy pics on the internet of myself make no sense to me. Do you guys ever notice the same thing with other women? Why get mad if someone compliments?
2007-10-15 01:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by A little Southern Comfort 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
By the way, I mean in a non insulting way!! I mean like someone simply saying "Youre very pretty." or "You have a great body." not being gross about it. Whyw ould that bother people and then they get nasty comments when they post pics of themself and thats ok?
2007-10-15 01:46:13 · update #1
I will continue to look and enjoy until the day I die. I seldom will say anything---I remember one time I saw a spectacular woman bending over and washing windows near a busy intersection and informed her that if she kept that up she would cause a car wreck...sometimes I will tell an attractive lady, "God was good to you..."' but the crude stuff, naw...
Do many women pretend to be outraged by some remarks that they secretly enjoy? Oh yeah. But it is just as cool to give an appropriate compliment, and more likely to get results. Men who make crude and inappropriate remarks are saying, "I know I'll never get you..." while an appropriate compliment can have a positive outcome.
2007-10-15 05:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that looking at a woman is negative and while a crude compliment is, well, crude it is not negative either. I know personally that when I look at an attractive woman, I'm just enjoying how she looks, moves or whatever else that attracted me. I don't think about her being a sex object or being any less of a person.
Sex is a very strong factor in our species as well as other species. Even though we try to repress it and box it into a small role, it continues to be a hardwired motivation or influence in both men and women.
2007-10-15 08:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thing with my women friends. They seem to like it if i say they look sexy and beautiful, but if a stranger does it they get really angry. I do not know!
2007-10-16 05:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me being married with 2 kids, i really enjoy it...it used to bother me because a lot of time i felt like a piece of meat. but then i realized, i may not be attractive for the rest of my life, as beauty will fade, so i embrace it and love it for now.
2007-10-15 12:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by heather b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never seen that stuff on youtube. You'll have to send me links so that I can post negative comments. I won't look at it or anything!
2007-10-15 22:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by sonofEatonWrite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋