Here's the prob. My girlfriend and i have a very active sex life. However, she has serious problems with her hips and usually cant get me to the finish line, since i can go up to 2 and 1/2 hrs, and she can only go to 30 or 45 min. it really upsets her and the last time she cried for about an hour. i told her that it wasnt very important, but she feels as if its her fault. i wont allow this. does anyone know a product or method that can decrease the time it takes me to ejaculate down to her level? please help.
2007-10-15 00:05:47 · 11 answers · asked by jpaagrainah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
try to reduce sex
2007-10-15 00:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Jay, good question and most of the answers have been given already. I will have a go for you: I think we could save alot of water if - people were made conscious of the importance of water, maybe through a world wide campaign (this would encourage a more responsible attitude). - people would not spray their leaves and garden debris away with the water hose! What happened to the rake and brush? - people as soon as there is a heat-wave, would not spray their gardens with thousands of liters of valuable water. Plants can survive with surprisingly little water! I am not saying let the plants die, but use common sense! - the government would impose a limit of water on each household per day, depending upon the size of the family. (This would not be a very popular, but an effective remedy!). But it would be quite costly, fitting households and companies with massive water consumption, with meters etc! - the government made new investments regarding the recycling and purification of water. (Costly, but salt water can be desalinated). Investments in general for a more efficient water production. Maybe some more research regarding river estuaries. Why does the salt sea water change to fresh water as the river proceeds further inland? - maybe a restriction on the use of dish-washing machines or washing machines. Search for new technoligical breakthroughs or more efficient software, to regulate the amount of water being used. (ie: dishwashers should be fitted with a sensor that stops the machine washing, when the machine is not full enough). - it would be possible to collect the water from the melting poles and glaciers, before it all melts into the sea..just an idea! - stop the over-production of goods that are water intensive during their production. - the government would charge more for the water we use (probably this idea will not be very popular, but the world's water reserves are more important than popularity)! - the companies producing toxic wastes, were not allowed to let the wastes run into the waterways. This decreases the amount of water available for the consumers and the industries too, not to talk about the damage to the environment! - every household could collect rainwater to spray around the garden during dry spells! -everybody would pull on the same string, show solidarity and work together for us all. If we do not, we can only blame ourselves. Hope this gives a few ideas..All the best!
2016-05-22 16:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by antoinette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st: Stop fornicating and get married.
2nd: Marry a better looking woman that will do the trick. Haa haaa.
Why do you need to take 2 and half hours? You cannot want sex that badly you just think you do. It's no brag to thinking you should spend hours just to ejaculate.
You should always put your partner's considerations first rather than self gratification. Else you are just making sex an ugly business for her.
It is not the amount but the quality that matters.
2007-10-15 00:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have some lovers like you, great thigh, glute and hamstring work-out, even hits the core pretty well too.
I suggest you ask her to try providing you with oral sex after 30 to 45 minutes ummm . . . the other way. I further suggest she and you look into prostate massaging techniques.
There are also some positions that might be easier on her hips. Anal sex may be a possibility too. Good luck.
2007-10-15 00:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking at the watch and look at the ways. Have you tried the prelude, the foreplay, sometimes this is better then the actual event.
Maybe she can be brought to climax several times and, you can take your time. There's more ways then one to make love you know.
Tell her to lay back and just relax, let you do the driving. Maybe rent a movie if she's willing, turn off the lights, the phone, take your time.
2007-10-15 00:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well their is a few things you could do. 1 you could try to spice things up by buying some kinky outfits (crotchless panties, teddies.. what ever turns you on) for your gf and/or role play could help shorten your time. try having her be loud and vocal. You could also talk to your doctor and see what medication they have out there that has "may cause premature ejaculation" as a side effect and depending on what that drug is for you might be able to take it even tough you dont have the main problem the drug is for.
2007-10-15 00:16:34 · answer #6 · answered by Dauntilus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Avoid taking vitamins and make sure you are tired while doing sex with her. I think that is the closest safe solution to your problem.
2007-10-15 00:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sir Raulo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man! ya gotta getta a grip on yerself
2007-10-15 00:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by swift20005 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
slow down
2007-10-15 00:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new positions
2007-10-15 00:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by tom w/ shovel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋