housemate hell? do you know what im talking about??

Question

i have been living with this person for about 2years now and we dont get along great great.. we have seperate lives but we share friends. problem is i just dont like this person. they are so conniving and selfish and want lots of attention that i clearly dont give.i have had a few experiences with them that lead me to believe this. my question is: am i being mean here to dislike this person or am i justified and is it a better idea to move?? but its a nice house and it belongs to this persons house too...
see, its twisted

help please

no i meant to say the house belongs to them

Answer 1

Look for your own place.
Keep things OK until you find somewhere better.

If you can't secure anywhere more suitable - communicate tactfully!

Answer 2

obvisly if you live whith someone very long or in a same house there have to be a fight or something , because you two wernt raised toghter so you all were raised difrrent way's which makes you two very hard to get along , well belive me i was in your status it becomes ugly day by day , and it was a very good place , but you know i hated that feeling everytime i see him in the morning or when you get anoyed from his conversation you know , so i left the house evn though it was a very good place so i rented own my own place , mannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn having your own place , ifelt like a huge waight left off my back , evn though it is a very very small place but you know you have got your own freedome so my advice is to leave the house , first look for a flat but dont tell him , then when you found one keep on moving your stuff slowly slowly then when you got 85% of your stuff in the new flat then tell him becuse you dont want to bomp in to his face every time you pick up your stuff

Answer 3

You can't help how you feel. Life is to short to be feeling this way about anyone.
In situations like this I always look at it from their side of things.
If I were them and found out how you feel about them how would they feel....... possibly gutted! but on the other hand maybe they feel the same but are to weak to do anything about it too.
Cut your losses, start looking for a new home. TELL THIS PERSON YOU ARE LOOKING before they hear about it from someone else please...You never know you might get to air your feelings and them realise just how they really are and ternover a new leaf. Good luck, happy home hunting

Answer 4

I'd get out of there so fast they would need warp drive to catch me. Once settled in my own undisclosed to this person place, I would then deal with the house issue, provided you mean you are co-owners when you say belongs to both of you.

Answer 5

You can always move. If you live with them and you have no other place to go then you could post a listing on your local craigslist and try to find a new roommate in your area. Good luck

Answer 6

who cares if its a nice house if ur not happy find ur own place with sum1 u can get along with. i know how u feel i have a family member like that. i cant stand it every word out of their mouth is poor me look what happened 2 me. i 4get what its called but its mental.good luck

Answer 7

Do you think it is worth it?
In life you have to do what you think is best. What is best for you? You only know what is best for you.
Is living in that house worth what you go through?
You only deserve the best.

Answer 8

Mine was the same way.
Remember, your a Tenant,
you don't have to have the
same friends.
Your lucky that you do.

You could move.
I hate moving.

Answer 9

one...dont stick to a person whom you dont get along well.two,dont stay to a place where you are not happy.three,leave the invironment if you feel you cant breath anymore!