Well here is my problem.
i've had this close friend for almost 5 yrs now.
We had so many things in common and were so great together.
I'm now at the end of my last year of highschool and i CANT stand that person!
It started off small like littel things annoying me about that person and found that we had nothing to talk about and just sat in silence.
Then a boy stated that she and i were best friends and jokingly said i didnt have any other friends. That was my trigger.
I started seeing ppl think that we were BFF'S (wich were totally not) and were starting to chunk us as one person. i hated that.
i am my own person and i dont want to be seen as somebody else, especially that person.
Anyways i went away on vactaion and when i came back i did'nt want to go back to the old ways.
That person instead became REALLY clingy and sometimes i just want to push them to the ground.
everything that person does shits me to a whole nother level.
WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????
2007-10-14 22:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Mezza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Maybe this person is the one with no other friends but you......
Maybe they paniced when they realised you felt this way. You must talk to this person and tell them how you feel, but hon, be nice about it. You may be gonna set a whole lot of upset so be nice.
2007-10-14 22:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Zeb G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. try telling then very gently at first that they're annoying you. if it doesn't stop you need to have a long talk with that friend and if they don't respect what ur saying, tell them you want a break. sometimes being around the same person all the time causes tension and a little break can solve evrything. hope you guys can work it out!!
2007-10-15 06:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by creamsodacutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have issues and you are not a friend to this person any more. Just tell her straight that you do not want to be her friend and move on. Best for both you and her.
2007-10-15 06:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by justagal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey seriously i had my frndz nt a frnd but many we wre 5 of them 1 girl nikki she s sooo sick i kno her 4rm 7 yrs she ws fine wid me 4 abt 6nd ahlf yrs sudddenly she strted actin crazy shes gt a bf abt 2 yrs ago and she s like litrally talking abt dat person only and she ws even buggin me alot even in other thins and so ileft her nd even others. hey theres a lot mre b2 tell u dis is my id - jeevanareddy@yahoo.co.in just add it and no mre abt my frndz nd tell me mre abt ur frndz
bye
2007-10-15 08:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by siri r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i could only ask you the same question dear!...i face the very same exactly precise problem....guess the best way out is to calmly talk to your friend.....for your old times' sake...
2007-10-15 05:57:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋