is he trying to trap me. ive heard of insecure women doing this to men hoping it will tie their men to them.. but a guy???
2007-10-14 19:59:45 · 24 answers · asked by SGPearlGirl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Are you the first girlfriend he has had? Maybe he thinks he will not be able to find someone other than you so in thinking that he is thinking that a baby will make the two of you stay together.
It doesn't matter how many kids you have with someone, that will not keep them tied to you.
I would be on birth control if i were you.
2007-10-14 20:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't bang you appropriately, don't even bother.
I am a firm believer that people should be financially and emotionally stable and mentally prepared before they have a child.
Also, are the genetics good on both or your parts? You don't need to go breeding mutants or anything.
Take all those things into consideration and figure it out. Best of luck.
2007-10-14 20:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you are not comfortable with or that is not right for you. People always do things for their own benefit and convenience, there is almost always something else that they planned all along.
There may be no way of telling why he wants to do this, you may not know until it is too late. If he tries to blackmail you with the whole idea I think you should just tell him good bye and to fuc_ off.
2007-10-14 20:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea guys do that to my first boyfriend tried to tell me he wanted kids and on top of that he lied about already having one then his friends told me he wants to have alot of kids to be a legacy and i was like heII no and the crazy thing is i believe he wanted one with me even before 3 months but girl let me tell u one thing it does not matter how OLD u r 3 months anyone can hide there true colors so please stop talking to him for all u know he will try to put a hole in the condom r sumin and u wouldnt know
and now a days ppl do anything in this world like purposely try to give other people disease because their mad because they have it
2007-10-14 20:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by Fee Fee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that....now i have a beautiful baby girl.
if u like this guy....u need have a serious chat w him...and get protection. becuz it only takes 1 time...and voila...ure pregnant.
now if u can live w out him....i would take everyones advice and walk away. cuz he is just trying to trap u. and it is too soon for a kid or marriage or whatever.
idk y know ppl r in such a rush to get married and have kids.
2007-10-14 20:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by M S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So, apparently you do not want to have a baby right now.
I guess you should tell him that.
He is probably in love with you and wants to share his life with you.
I can't imagine he just wants to see you pregnant and or pay child support for the next 18 years.
Your timing is just off.
He is ready for that type of commitment and you are not.
Tell him.
It may end your relationship but then again it may not.
Tell him.
2007-10-14 20:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if he can't respect that you don't want to get pregnant, he is not for you. I mean you are the one that will have to live with the consequences. The guy can easily just walk away with a mere slap on the wrist. Know what you want, and stand up for it.
2007-10-14 20:18:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mixedbrunette 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a possibility because you all have only been together for 3 months. You should not try to get pregnant now because you all have not been together long enough.
2007-10-14 20:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run, don't walk, to the nearest exit. Shut the door quickly leaving him on the other side. Hide. Get rid of this bozo.
2007-10-14 20:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by Gracie 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Just dont get pregnant!
I love my husband with all my heart, but our baby is putting a hell lot of strain on our relationship...
Wait at least untill you've known him a year.
Good luck!
2007-10-14 20:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋