I asked a couple questions last week about these pictures, so no comments on the other questions please. If you want to see these pictures go to my yahoo 360 then go to the far right side about 1/2 way down where it says "photo stream" & look at the first 2 pix. They were taken 25 min apart. They were taken in Sturgis during biker rally & to me one looks like it's taken at work w/ all the boxes in background, but the other one looks like it's after work. What do you think? My husband says she's just a girl that was handing out beef jerky & then had her picture taken w/ people. Remember they are 25 minutes apart & look at them closely & tell me what you think? If I'm just being paranoid, you can tell me so, but he said the guy he works with that took the pictures didn't think the 1st one took so HE thought he should take another one. Something just sounds funny about that to me???
2007-10-14 19:34:09 · 23 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
click on photo stream on my yahoo 360--it will be the 1st 2 pix on there.
2007-10-14 19:37:24 · update #1
Look at how they are smiling & how his arm is all the way around her, not just on her shoulder?
2007-10-14 20:04:02 · update #2
Does anyone think it's odd 2 pictures taken 25 minutes apart?
2007-10-14 20:50:04 · update #3
Took a look. My first reaction was..whoa. Then I looked closer. The way she is dressed makes me tend to agree with baseball. Your hubby has a big smile sure, but other than his one arm, I see nothing in his body language to indicate anything more than him taking advantage of an opportunity to 'show off' with his buddy. She is dressed far too provocatively to be 'just' a participant, biker rally or no.
Having said that, if I was your hubby, I would not argue you telling me that it made you very uncomfortable to see those pictures. I would understand why you are 'upset,' then I would apologize, assure you it will never happen again, then I would show you that it is you I was in love with.
2007-10-14 20:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah the pics arent there... there was one of people eating at a restraunt it looked like and then a man holding a blonde hair boy... and then 2 kids...
BUT woman... you let your dh go to Sturgis alone!? Sturgis is just t*tties and beer! If your ok with that kinda thing, thats cool... but honestly, my guess would be from the description of the pics is this:
There are THOUSANDS of people at Sturgis! You couldn't shake a stick at all the guys there lookin for some pootang! There are alot more MEN than there are women... now seriously think about this (and this is what I have to make myself do because I do this same thing) what are the chances that some hot chick is gonna pick your husband out of all these men to mess with? I mean if he was some kind of greek god, you may have a problem (and I havent seen him, maybe he is?) but the average man is far from that! And I am just ASSUMING your hubby is an average man, and I am assuming that the girl looks like the average biker ralley waitress (ya know the kind that make you sick with big boobs, small waist, and a kickin hips) but do you seriously think, even if he tried, he could get with some hot waitress at Sturgis?
Also if he was working at Sturgis... them people work ALL the time with very little time off... its a big place and you can make some good money if your working that bike rally but to do that you gotta give them what they want, when they want it... Im sure it was really nothing to be worried about... may not be something you are HAPPY about, but he more than likely didnt do anything. Hope that helped (I have some knowledge on bike rally's ;) )
2007-10-15 03:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mommy to 1+triplets 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't access the pix as the page won't open. The thing is you know your husband best & if he has given u a reason to suspect him then I don't think you are being paranoid. I can't see the pix but in fairness your husband may have flirted with that woman or even more likely from one comment that she could have been guilty of doing the flirting. It doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating. But I'm sure you won't be able to rest your mind until this is settled. So maybe you'd want to do a little investigation but be warned you might end up discovering that he is not cheating but it may open doors to other issues and insecurities. Be careful & Good luck.
2007-10-15 02:56:14 · answer #3 · answered by Acid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guess u no by now.. we aren't able to see the pic..?
well,, if u have never been to a rally.... well unless u are free at heart to be a female .. then u don't want tooo..
my ex was on a business trip.. in LV when they had a rally in town.. he came home with some really hum dingers.. yes.. these girls are like strippers.. and enjoy showing off everything they have.. yes everything.. and they do not have jealous bf's.. they are glad to show off in front of the guys with their Harley D...
so not being able to see the photo.. and whether it was w/ Ur bf or not.. it is hard to give advise.. but there is no way a male of any age could not of enjoyed the rally...
u no him.. so u will have to be the judge and decide what YOU are gonna do about it... sorry hope this has helped..
PS.. i was mad and upset for a long long time.. remember he is my EX today... hmmmm????
pss.. u said go 360 then on rt side it will say photo stream.. sorry .. but that is no where to be found.. try to update us as to what u want us to do... thanks
2007-10-15 03:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry says account locked for migration when I try to look at the pictures.
But let's be honest about your suspicions. You are either paranoid or you have reason to suspect him. Odds are its the latter.
The best thing you can do is make sure you have your 'ducks in a row', financially and then if you get proof you will be able to support yourself and your boys.
Men always deny when they cheat so asking him does no good. You could hire someone to follow him, but with kids in the picture, that money would come out of their mouths.
If it were me, I would save every penny I could and put it somewhere he would never find. I would also at the same time, ask him to spend some time in a marriage counselor's office. Obviously you have reasons behind your suspicions. Better to try and get things worked out (but still plan for the future).
2007-10-15 02:45:33 · answer #5 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont think shes all that!! nothing to brag about, in my opinion. if she was the best looking they had, WOW...how sad...ha ha. yeah, he did have his arm around her, i wouldnt like that. if the pictures were taken 20 mins apart, then they at least spent the 20 or so mins together. you know they didnt take a picture, and leave her, then find her again for a picture again...just out of curiosity, if she was there, why did you not go with him?
2007-10-15 07:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be suspicious. I think it's just some random girl that was at the event. However, being that you are married, no woman should be all up on your husband like that and he shouldn't allow it. How would he feel if you were taking pictures with random guys all over you? Something to think about.
2007-10-15 02:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by apple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where there is smoke there is usually fire hon....
If coupled with your suspicions about these pictures there are other things that are ringing bells in your gut, I'd go with your gut feelings. Very rarely is a woman's gut wrong. Sorry....If this guy is doing what you think he is...well....it's better to cut your losses before he brings some STD home or some little chicy-baby shows up in your face and slaps the truth on you. Sorry....I just feel so bad for ya.........Good Luck hon...
2007-10-15 02:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think I would not to worry to much about him ever seeing her again she looked like biker trash. The thing I would be worried about is her grabbing his stuff in the first picture it looks like one of his buddies took it and tried not to get that in the pic but you can kinda see that.
2007-10-15 09:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i remember your question. i was the one who said that maybe a whore was passing by and asked him to buy her a beer and then they took a picture together. now i am sorry i have to take my words back after actually seeing those pictures. i am sorry to admit but they don't look good those pics. i would be upset too. and i would demand explanation. to me it looks like he went especially there to meet with her, or meeting was arranged before. and even 10% if it werent 100% they would keep in touch. i really don't know what i would do if i were in this situation, i know i would be horribely upset and demand explanations. it seems like they re quite intimate with each other, and they don't look like they just met
2007-10-15 02:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by yeahright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋