There was once a woman and a man, married. They lived in a middle of nowhere, kilometres and kilometres of woods and wilderness around, and the man drove to his work for an hour every day. He married a woman for love, and she didn't like to stay in all the time, and searched for job, or something else to do, but there was nothing to do, and if there was a job advertised many kilometres away, they wanted a man (and they had only one car, and could not afford any other). They lived so so, not too bad, but not extremely good either. Then the man lost his job, and however hard both of them search, nothing came up, and they lived on baked potatoes and tap water. Then a woman went to the nearest little town to apply for yet another job, where they wanted everybody on paper, but were looking for a male in fact, and meet a well to do man.
2007-10-14 19:30:33 · 10 answers · asked by 17 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He asked for her a lunch, hinting that he could get her a job, and it was the first time in three years when she ate something different than potatoes and a drop of oil (be careful, darling, oil is dear, three drops per one potato). She almost swooned, the food as so good (or seemed so to her). The well to do man said that if the woman to become his lover, he will employ her husband, and he'll be promoted in time, and she will have nice food, even travels and nice clothes (she didn't have any new clothes for six years). Now, she didn't want to, but couldn't endure potatoes and potatoes sacks for clothing anymore, and her husband got the job, and promotion... and after this started telling her that he knew it all along, and that she was a bad woman... And how he planned to expose her to the world and divorce her... But that he would keep the job and and appointments, as a form of compensation. Is she a very bad woman?
2007-10-14 19:34:17 · update #1
She has less integrity than a prostitute but you do what you have to do.
2007-10-14 19:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The whole point of Question's and Answer's is having a place we can come and vent our problems , ask for help and take on board the advice given and be able to process the BS from the real people wanting to help the situation , while not all Question'ers actually heed the advice after processing it and use it to make their live's less stressful and more comfortable / manageable a lot of people do actually move on after the advice is given.
When I give advice it's usually based on a double sided coin , I tend to give the side where the problem is real and does need tending to and advise moving on and giving yourself time to mourn the loss of a marriage or a loved 1 and then taking up some hobbies like art classes or theatre group's , what ever is needed to rebuild the self esteem and the inner soul.
On the other side of the coin I give the negative , where I dont totally believe 100% that the question is actually viable or true and honest , like when someone just gets bored and basically writes a question that sounds like something out of a story they read some where.
For this question I am afraid even though it may get me many thumbs down , I feel that this question is not real.
2007-10-14 21:13:52 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can anyone say she is bad? What has she done? Looks like she's trying to help out her hubby. That's not bad. Besides, who am I to judge if someone else is bad?
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No, I don't think so. She had a right motivation in doing it. The means, however, do not justify the end. She meant well, but was sorely misguided. I do not condone cheating for any reason. I don't think the guy is so great, either. He took advantage of what she got for him. If he was so righteous, he should have divorced her for cheating, then made his own way in life. Shame on him!
2007-10-14 19:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking that if a woman who is in poverty, accepts an offer that she sees as the only way out, not just for her, but for the one she loves, is she a bad person? No, she's not, but I will tell you who is.
The jerk who made it a condition of his help for her to become his sex slave, and to the jerk of a husband, who would accept all the help to get HIS life in a better place and then DARES to call her on her behavior, knowing the sacrifice she made to make his life better.
2007-10-14 19:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if her husband took care of her she wouldn't have resorted to that. Poor woman why would she have to accept eating potatoes for the rest of her life? I think she should leave her loser, ungrateful, user and blackmailing husband and find a real man who can take care of business.
2007-10-14 21:16:55 · answer #5 · answered by Acid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but he is an ***. He married a woman and kept her in a house in the middle of nowhere with no social contact, he is lucky she didn't kill him in his sleep out of frustration. Sounds like the prick wanted a housekeeper and sex slave and not a wife.
2007-10-14 19:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by James Watkin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly not rate her bad woman. What she did was out of circumstance and to help her husband.
2007-10-14 19:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its called survival .... Plain and simple
2007-10-14 22:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is a prostitute.
"someone who has sex for money" there is no difference.
I'm not saying she is "bad" but that is what she is doing.
2007-10-14 19:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it.s called prostution pal my opion?
2007-10-14 19:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋