i am still pretty young. trust me. my boyfriend and i always use a condom, but he always fingers me & stuff before. last night he fingered me really hard and it hurt. then we had intercourse and i bled a little after. now, reading the things online im scared. i lost my virginity to him in july of 07, this year. HELP please,
ps it only bled for like a minute anfter intercourse, maybe even less
additional info:
my mother doesnt know about the intercourse i have been having so i dont want her to take me to a doctor
& i have been getting the gardisil shots, ive had two, and im gna take the last one tomorrow.
2007-10-14 18:43:37 · 6 answers · asked by ThatGirl 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You probably just broke some blood vessels. Its not a big deal but if it keeps happening you may want to go to the doctor just to make sure.
Ignore them. I say do what you want as long as you are safe. Maybe you should go to a planned parenthood type place. They can give you lots of info and birth control without your parents knowing...if your interested of course.
2007-10-14 19:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by candi_junkie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably fine-just keep an eye out on the amount of your bleeding. Next, time communicate more with him so that he knows what's comfortable for you,otherwise stop having sex and figure out what you're doing.
2007-10-15 02:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by MissB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with you? Why did you let him do that to you without pushing him away when he was getting rough? I suggest you stop this activity since you have no idea what you are doing. He could cause you to have a vaginal infection.
You need to make better choices, you pay a price for all the wrong ones you make in life. Respect yourself or no one will respect you.
2007-10-15 01:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you idiot your very young.. stop with the sex for a dam while, nex thing you know you count have aids or pregnancy and seriously "FINGERING"!! AND UR ONLY 14!!?!?!?! whats wrong with you.. ok dont tell your mom and dont goto the docter just take sure you take care of your vagina and take a bath every night, stop having sex.. most guys will have sex a few times then dump you..
good luck with life
2007-10-15 01:50:00 · answer #4 · answered by t3h_n00bz0r5 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
when he fingered you, it may have tore a wall, but if it goes away it should be fine, if you keep bleeding then something is wrong. but if its just a spotting its no big deal
2007-10-15 01:51:23 · answer #5 · answered by mari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes prolly cuttin ya up when he fingers u.. i really dont think u have ne thing 2 worry about.
2007-10-15 01:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by latinababe0105@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋