HELP I GOT MY 13 YEAR OLd Girlfriend pregnat shes 3 weeks in and she wont get an abortion will i have to pay child support should i stay and support her?????
2007-10-14 12:48:39 · 19 answers · asked by Kaleb A 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
And i want her to get a abortion but she thinks its murder so can i force her
2007-10-14 13:01:32 · update #1
i just found out at 6:00 pm she called me and told me and i exploded
2007-10-14 13:03:31 · update #2
i work and Sonic for 6.28$ an hour and i work 5 hours of the day on saturday and sunday is that enogh to pay for a child??????
2007-10-14 13:05:32 · update #3
How can you support someone else when you can't even support yourself.
It takes money to have an abortion which both of you don't have cause you both still rely on mommy & daddy. Secondly it will take her mommy or daddy to sign for her to get an abortion.
If i was 13 and pregnant i would beg my mom for an abortion. Which i wasn't having sex at 13 or 15.
When you turn 16 (according what state your in) you will be old enough for a part time job so the courts might make you pay but since you are still a little boy who knows.
If i were you i would not have sex anymore until you know how to put a condom on.
2007-10-14 12:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your last entry you wrote : "i work and Sonic for 6.28$ an hour and i work 5 hours of the day on saturday and sunday is that enogh to pay for a child??????"
This last thing you wrote proves that you are just bullshi_ting all of us with some question you pulled out of your own a_s. Anyone who can count their change after buying a pack of gum would know that you can't raise a child with the job and pay you currently have. Yeah you make about enough to buy a new PlayStation game every week, you're a fuc_ing kid yourself what do you think, could you take care of yourself with the job you have?
2007-10-14 20:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is no way that you should be having sex with a 13 year old girl! Second of all, you have a job, you should be buying condoms. Third, she is too early to test for pregnancy. And if she is pregnant, you should stay and support her and your baby. That is the only thing that you should be thinking about, how to support this girl and your baby. Not do I have to pay child support or that she should get an abortion? You did this, without thinking about the reponsibilities when it comes to sex, you did this with a 13 year old girl! What in the hell is the matter with you? No girls your age? Even then, you should be wearing a condom! Thinking about the good time over the actual real facts of sex, is going to get you into trouble all the time. In this day and age, there is a lot of information that is acessable and easy to find. You should know about pregnancy and STDs by your age. They teach that in school. Did you skip that class? Grow a brain and think with your real head and not the other one!
2007-10-14 13:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With so much to read, I just skimmed it. But I saw: -- you need to be heard -- you need someone to talk to -- you're scared -- you're anorexic -- you've done cutting. All of this screams the need for a good therapist. Go. Get to a psychologist. No excuse you can think of is stronger than this screaming need you have. And when you go, don't fake it. Don't give sullen one-word answers. Pour your heart out and listen to what the therapist says. Even when it doesn't sound right at first. Good luck.
2016-05-22 13:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by lanell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she would know in 3 weeks or not. It is up to the female (especially since you're not married) to make the decisions. You can't force her to have an abortion. You just need to be there for her, and take care of the baby when it comes out. She's going to need a lot of support, but emotionally and financially. You should have thought about that when you had sex with her at that age. You just ruined her life as well as yours. I hope it was worth it!!
2007-10-14 18:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mandi F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her decision if she wants to get an abortion. If she doesn't, then yes you should support her, if you are or not in a relationship with her. If you were old enough to have sex and make a baby, then be old enough to take responsibility.
As far as child support you will eventually have to pay. When you are old enough to have a job you will be old enough to pay!
You should have made better choices and decisions. You at the age of 15 had no right to be having sex to begin with!
2007-10-14 12:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by Kathleen B 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're old enough to play then you're old enough to pay (the consequences). You're only 15 how much child support can you possible afford and do you even have a job?? She and your baby will become part of "the system" and you'll get off scott free unless you decide to man up and take responsibility for what you've done.
2007-10-14 12:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's only 3 weeks? I would get her to take a test with you present because usually you can't tell at 3 weeks.
What are you doing having sex at 15 much less with a 13 year old?? You're both children! No abortion. Grant it, you are young but you'll regret it for the rest of your life because it's something you can't take back. And no, you can't force her to.
2007-10-14 13:27:10 · answer #8 · answered by Malia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to pay child support til ur 18. There's no way the state can make you. The honorable thing to do is at least offer emotional support. She's 13... try to be a nice guy. You did get her pregnant...if she is pregnant. You should help out at least a little.
2007-10-14 12:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, you should stay and support her after all you're the one that got her pregnant. If you were man enough to have sex then you are man enough to stand by her side and take care of that baby. Kids your age frustrate me. You guys think its so easy to just go and have sex but you either don't know what the hell a condom is or just don't know how to use one. Deal with the consequences of your actions, its too late to turn back now.
2007-10-14 12:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by jewelz1021 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋