How many kids do would you have before you think you've had too many? Or how many would be too many to have?
2007-10-14 11:32:22 · 11 answers · asked by Aneres 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Personaly, I think I am pregnant with my third right now. I plan to get a blood test done to confirm it tomorrow. But the third is my last one. I think 4 kids is a lot and 5 is to many to have.
But it really depends on money. If you have the money and time to give to your kids, then there really isn't a problem with having a lot of kids.
To many depends on the family.
A family who doesn't have a lot of money, to many for that family will be different than what is considered to many for a family that has a lot of money and time for more kids.
It just all depends on the circumstances. If you don't have the means, then don't have the kids.
2007-10-14 11:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tired-Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only want 2, maybe three, so any more than 3 is too many for me, but i have a friend who has 6 and she's very happy, i think she's had enough now though.
2007-10-14 18:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Jade's Mommy♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no right answer to this question. For some people (Like the Duggars--google them--they've had 17 children) lots of kids is great, and for some just one, or none, is right for them. It just depends on the individual.
2007-10-14 18:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by still waiting 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think over 6 is too many for me. I don't want my whole life devoted to caring for children...I want to have my older years for ME. I know I won't have 6...maybe 4 or 5.
2007-10-14 18:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've always wanted 3 so i think that four would be too many for me!
2007-10-14 18:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by bec 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's really personal. But, the world is soo overpopulated, people who have a LOT of kids seem irresponsibel to me. I plan on having two or three kids, through adoption and maybe one biological child.
So many kids need parents. I don't understand why people won't adopt but they will go through all these medical procedures to conceive. But, I won't judge them because I do not understand them.
2007-10-14 18:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
At the point where you need government assistance to feed, clothe, or provide health care for any of your children is the point where you have one too many.
This could be one child, or it could be 10 children. It completely depends.
2007-10-14 18:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, my daughter (an only child) just started college. You won't believe how expensive it is.
Though I often regretted only having one child, when I saw how expensive it was to raise her, I think one is the perfect number.
2007-10-14 18:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
3 is average.any more then 4 is crazy.
2007-10-14 18:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by Dennis j 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
me personally i think my one daughter is enough...lol...children are alot of work...but i give major props to those moms who have lots of kids, YOU ARE ALL STRONG WOMEN!! it all depends on personal preference and how much people can/cant handle (financially, emotionally, physically..etc..etc...)
2007-10-14 18:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by infantry_wife 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋