2007-10-14 10:56:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes, im upset.
i posted a question a few minutes ago, where i am very upset about gaining 7 lbs and the attitude of some other people towards me. Not because im fat but being very inconsiderate and hurtful because im not as fat as them, I don’t look like them and I like to takecare of me – don’t drink don’t smoke, eat veggies, etc.
their attitude is what is making me worry, upset and fat… I know im too nice.
I have been clearly indicating to those idiots I don’t want to be like them.
2007-10-14 10:59:07 · update #1
but i have a few negative answers because of my question and one user quickly emailed me 2 messages and said something like i was going to give you a best answer and can i have your 360.. ( :
and in the second message says, ow - damn, its doesnt matter now. Indicating it’s because im fat and he also thinks im a mean person.
so i sent him my 360 and told him of how rood he was and he sends me a message back begging forgiveness and telling me how good i look! - (what an idiot) lol.
2007-10-14 10:59:27 · update #2
now, is this the type of people who should be trying to influence me and be telling me how wrong i am and how wrong my attitude is because i like taking care of myself - they put it straight down to me having a big ego or a selfish attitude – now that’s very sad.
they think because im a nice-ish, naïve sounding girl I shouldn’t have any self belief.
These are obviously by people who don’t care about me.
some women who know me – on the other hand, regardless of what alway feel that if im not over weight and I shouldn’t be complaining and can actually be very unhelpful and mean.
2007-10-14 10:59:44 · update #3
and im here going through a personal problem because of some idiots like this! - whom i am complaining about.
Funny but that user himself is an ugly and also a dumb guy – looking at his photo, im sure he is 10 years older than me and these are the type of idiots who should be trying to influence me and telling me what is right and wrong about myself.
2007-10-14 11:00:01 · update #4
- well, my main question and before this is regarding to people i do know. that was why i put a question up in the first place.
2007-10-14 11:30:15 · update #5
firstly, your not the only woman who hates the fact they are gaining or have gained weight, i have put on loads lately, i am probably now the right weight for my size but as i have always had a flat stomache and was able to wear short tops and hipster jeans and suddenly i have developed love handles and extra skin on my tummy (i gave birth 2 years ago and can't get rid of it)
I went through a stage of not wanting to go out as i felt ugly and frumpy, all my jeans were too tight etc, but do you know what... i thought sod it, i can sit here worrying how i look or just accept my body as it is, i have a healthy baby girl so every damn stretch mark and the mummy tummy's worth it!
You have to love yourself before you will even believe anyone could love you or find you attractive.
I don't think i know 1 woman who wouldn't like to loose a few pounds try to be happy, theres no point being upset, like i said i know how your feeling, i have my fat days as i call them where i feel horrid, but i have more better days.
2007-10-14 11:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zzz......oh sorry just woken up after reading your essay! look you will not get any sense from people on here .If your feeling down about yourself do something positive about it .7 lbs is nothing and you can easily loose it if you try.Just walk abit more and eat a bit less or eat the good stuff and no bad!Drink loads of water and relax about it.I am sure your very nice but don't let someone you have never met upset you.
Don't try insulting people on here either or you are simply asking for negative comments! Switch of your PC and go have a long soak and pamper yourself.....its far more constructive.
2007-10-14 12:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps report these 'idiots' on here and stop them from doing it and teach them a bit of a lesson because theres no reason why u shouldnt. Also, if u have put on a bit of weight, ignore these negative comments and see them as even more of a reason to overcome this negativity and prove them wrong. Ur better than them!
2007-10-14 11:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by angelfacecutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like your upset about people being mean to you, yet you are calling someone ugly and dumb and fat?? Maybe you yourself should learn to be nice to others and they may be nice back. Whatever you do in life try to imagine how it affects others, not just yourself.
2007-10-14 11:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by tamika_cyrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were not prepared for responses you should not have made the posting.
Your comments are rather unkind, which suggests you do not object to cruel comments unless they are made at you.
Value yourself, and stop worrying about others' views.
2007-10-14 23:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont hand out your 360 address or any other email address to anyone until you feel comfortable doing so and certainly don't let other people know that you have been riled by their comments. It will only make them more antagonistic.
2007-10-14 11:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by charlie 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If someone upsets you, don't share contact information with him. Just take the advice you like and leave the rest.
2007-10-14 11:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have opinions. If you don't like what they say why post the question in the first place?
2007-10-14 11:01:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore the evil people, I'm sure you are very nice and how can people say you are not if they don't know you.
2007-10-14 11:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Eddie W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first eat the veggies and second ignore idiotic evil people
2007-10-14 11:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by geomon2gyromon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋