im wit my boyfriend 7years now and have a great relationship and sex life but wen were out he cant help himself he stares at other women i dont say anything him as its not tat big a thing but more annoying than anything i wish he could have a little respect for me and jst close his eyes to resist temtation
2007-10-14 10:46:14 · 25 answers · asked by sexy cat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think it's a man thing, i have been with my hubby for 10 years and he does the same, even when he's driving and we pass a thin blonde, i see him checking her out in the rear view mirror. I just laugh it off now, he is with me and thats all that matters, i don't mind him window shopping (only as i have his credit card!)
2007-10-14 10:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can identify with your dilemma. It is not a comfortable feeling to have your boy-friend looking at other women while you are out.
If he cares and loves you he should respect your wishes and try to control himself. However if you ave communicated this to him over and over again and he still does this. You have to make a decision if this is something that you can live with him doing. If not, then he is going to have to make the decision not to allow his eyes to wander to other women while he is with you. Respect is very important and both people in the relationship needs to know that the other respects them. He may think its harmless but because he loves you and cares for you, and knows that this makes you feel like he is not being respectful he should stop.
2007-10-14 10:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Julia T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been with my bf for only 5 years but still, he is not that kind of guy! I'm not saying he doesn't look at other girls but not to stare and make me uncomfortable! At least you know that he is looking at other women, and he's not only doing it behind your back, i hate when a man does that, pretending he is not looking while he is!!! I'm sure you do it sometimes to...when you take a walk in the summer and see hot construction shirtless guys on a roof...mmmm! lol
Well, if you are talking bout looking at a women and staring like he may be imagining what he would do to her, than it is wrong...really wrong! My bf won't do it only because he doesn't want me to look at other guys...i do it anyway, and i do love my bf!
2007-10-14 11:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me personally would have to say something if it was my boyfriend doing this, but saying that i am married and my husband doesn't do this. I would not trust him if he did that all the time.
I was in a relationship once, and my ex partner did it all the time, it annoyed me tremendously. That relationship came to an end eventually.
Why does a man have to look at other women if he loves his partner, there should be no temptation at all.
2007-10-14 10:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by julie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
M hubby 'looks' too. Feel good in the fact that your bf perves - but comes home to you. People can't help finding other people attarctive, and if he's just looking whats the harm? When you're out with him, find some eye candy of your own. He may not realise how it upsets you until it happens to him.
2007-10-14 10:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by akdawswon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sexy,
This is perfectly normal, we all do it, it is genetic. It is not an insult to you but something that is hard wired into us at the very deepest biological level. If we did not check out the talent, the human race would not last 2 generations, we would have lost the urge to multiply. If he did not look at them, he would not be with you. There is nothing you can do about it at all, it is something you will have to accept.
2007-10-14 11:02:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say anything???? My goodness, you have more self control than I do! It is normal I guess, but then again, it's not right that he gawps at other women, especially in your presence! Its not very respectful or considerate to you, who he should only have eyes for. I would mention it to him gently. Say that you know he loves you so why does he look at other women when he has you?
2007-10-14 10:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by miss_ruby_topaz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is normal, and there are a very few men that are devoted who are polite enough not to look, but would if you are not around.
Do the same back, there are some gorgeous men around (sometimes!)
2007-10-14 10:53:02 · answer #8 · answered by Ylang-Ylang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look once and he's only human; twice and he's a lecherous git; three times and it's time to ditch him!
However, if he starts ogling blokes, then he's admitting he may be gay, so find another bloke sharpish!
2007-10-14 10:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do really see a problem here.Whats wrong with looking at a good looking male or female.It does not mean he doesn't love and care for you.
Maybe you are just feeling a bit insecure.
It bugs my wife but it doesn't mean its wrong.
2007-10-14 10:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by tam c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋