2007-10-14 09:13:18 · 15 answers · asked by Miss T 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
It's been my experience that you don't...
Once the connection is severed...trying to repair it is just
like putting temporary duct tape over a leaking hose...
doesn't work very well...
The hose ends up leaking in the same places again in the near future...and you find yourself getting in arguments and fights "about" old arguments and fights...
It's always best to move on...and buy a new water hose...
(best analogy I could think of on short notice...)
2007-10-14 12:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember back to when the love was new and you were happy. What things have changed and what made you happy? Do you still do the things you use to do, or has the daily life become a habit? Could you still do some of the things you use to do? Make the time to talk and see what each person feels. No relationship is always easy. People need to decide if they even want to try to make it work.
If the love is still there, then it can be worked out.
2007-10-14 09:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Breezey is saying HAPPY BIRTHDAY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom's birthday was on October 30! (Yesterday actually.) Does that make her a witch because she was born so close to Halloween?? Of course not silly. She's a witch regardless! (I love my mami!!) But what I mean to say is that it's incredible, the coincidence. But is it a coincidence? Like you said, what are the chances. It was possible, but not probable. In your case it happened. You are gay and had a twin die. Someone else is gay and had their twin die. On your birthdays, which just so happen to be a day apart. Ok, I see it like this. It was a coincidence that it happened, but I don't think it was a coincidence that you met this person and he's your friend. Why? Because you both share a similar tragedy. You energies are very similar. Some things just can't be explained. You just need to take it for it's value. (Happy Birthday!! *hug*) =D
2016-05-22 12:30:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk. If the connection is dead you can always run a new cable...unless the outlet is gone. There has to be a reason they are you s/o because you hooked up with them. Make it work out. Do the best you can and if there is no movement, maybe it was over before you started trying again.
2007-10-14 09:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sit back and meditate and stay calm and listen in the silence so your mind is cleared and the missing part of the connection might be discovered and become alive again.
2007-10-14 10:45:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK to each other!! Remember what you love about each other. Shed some tears and spill your emotions. Put your heart out there and truly share with them. Look inside yourselves together and learn. ABOVE ALL... you have to be honest and tell everything. If you are really in love you will work it out.
Help each other in this. It's the only way.
2007-10-14 10:24:00 · answer #6 · answered by Raistlin 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Mrs T , it may be dead, but the connection is still there! So talk and talk together! Have a great day! Jimmy.
2007-10-14 09:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Jimmy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate!!! That's the most important thing. I felt I no longer passionately loved my husband and wanted out of our marriage. It took a lot of tears and talking to make me realize how much I do love him.
2007-10-14 09:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by Shrew 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whaff 4 U want 2 do that...Move on.
2007-10-14 09:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start over. like you never met, in a way. try and see the person through new eyes.
2007-10-14 09:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by mbs4174 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋