Please be honest guys...?

Question

Ok. I am going to make this short and sweet. I am 5'9" and hate it. I allways feel like a freak when I walk around and am taller then everyone else. I can never find a good bf becasue everyone is shorter then me. Oh, and I am still growing.

So I want your guy's advice: Is like 5'10" too tall? I don't need mean comments from some of you jerkish guys out there, I just need a real opinioin, k?

Thanks a bunch.

I am not ugly either. Not pretty, just not ugly.

Answer 1

Some things (height, like large breasts or hair colour) may affect a first impression. However, for most guys, once they know you and are talking to you, that sort of relationship matters more than appearances. it's not like you're freakishly tall; you're shorter than the average guy. You're shorter than me. I think long term, guys, like girls, are looking for someone they enjoy being with. That's personality, not superficial appearance.

(the crude answer is that lying down, they're all the same height...)

Answer 2

I think taller women can be a big attraction. It sort of seems a tall woman can be more authoritive, stronger, more independent, or so it seems, ESPECIALLY a woman boss. A man may seem more in charge looking down at a woman...maybe a mental thing...thing of control. When he can't look down there may be intimidation...just some stupid male thinking I assume. This doesn't mean you are at a disadvantage....contrary; maybe you will find a man who has utmost respect for a taller woman and not looking to control, but for a true partner.

You might say my reasoning may be a little wacky but the subconscious mind would be the culprit if height were an issue and this would psychologically be the simple minded reason.

Another thing, just for you, maybe this is a stupid manly point of view, but it does seem to me shorter women (and men) tend to expand out further with age...taller people tend to stay lean and shapely.

Last week I was attracted to the tallest woman in the place. She wore a long dress which further enhanced her height, atleast as tall as you....VERY sexy.

Your welcome.

Answer 3

This isn't from a guy obviously, but guys will catch up and you just have to put up with it. Look, there is a reason all the models worldwide have to be at least 5 - 9 or taller. Pick up a vogue or vanity fair and look at those girls! I don't know how old you are but it all works out in a few years. As far as boys being shorter, If you like each other it's no big deal, anyone who makes fun is just a butthole trying to make themselves feel better because they are jealous. Be proud of your height - I wish I had an extra few inches!

Answer 4

Tall girls have always had this concern. Get over it. Your height should not be what is important in a relationship. 5'10' is an average height for men anyway and why do women need to be shorter than men? You will probably end up meeting some tall guy and have a perfectly happy life anyway. Just date the short ones and have a good time too!

Answer 5

I am 6'0" tall(guy). I have dated both 5'0" and 6'0" women and I have to admit the taller women fit me better when it came time to get intimate. The only problem the taller woman had was that they felt as if they could never wear heels....which I did not care one way or another.
It sounds like you may have a problem in the fact that you want a guy to be taller than you...Well not to be mean but get over it....so you look down at your boyfriend, if he is good to you thats what counts

Answer 6

Well first of all 5' 10", is not to tall. Second of all what of the guy is also tall. Im fairly tall and wouldnt mind a nice tall girl. I dont want some one standing at my waist.

Answer 7

I'm not a guy but would love to be your height (I'm 5'3)

Lots of guys go for tall women, even famous ones, Tom Cruise for one.

Be proud and beautiful. The confidence will attract men like moths around a flame x

Answer 8

Your first mistake is you're looking and your 2nd mistake is you don't be attentive to adult men. no longer that no longer understanding is a mistake, yet giving in to adult men asking you out isn't being accountable including your thoughts. in the beginning, no count in case you be attentive to this or no longer maximum adult men decrease than 35 ask ladies out each and all the time....maximum adult men evaluate it like fishing.....save throwing out the bait and see who will chew. Secondly, undemanding adult men are everywhere...and how are you able to tell an undemanding guy? via their politeness, their sophistication, via having sturdy ideals and robust ideals approximately the place they like to pass.... you're spending too a lot time looking the "undesirable boy" exciting or the "dreamers" exciting....pass detect a guy...attempt somebody a lot older purely for dates and see the assessment.....Like I tell maximum lady friends "once you're relationship adult men decrease than 30 you're dropping a while." in any case, ask those 2 questions and you would be attentive to if a guy is being undemanding: what scares you? and, what's maximum extreme to you. And tension them to problematic on the how and why and what......the form you experience while they have responded could have helped you alongside the way of understand no count if or no longer they are able to be undemanding with themselves....that's the main extreme ingredient of all. be properly.

Answer 9

You know you are realy lucky to be so special.

You will stand out from the crowd.

Being as tall as you are is very attractive to many.

People form relationships based on the personality.

You are special, enjoy being special.

Smile, be confident and enjoy the way you are.

Answer 10

I'm 6'2" and would have loved to find someone I liked who was also about my height. Don't let that worry you. Men come with all sorts of quirks.

That didn't come out right. But you know what I mean.