I'm just wonderin' what you guys think.
2007-10-14 03:43:59 · 13 answers · asked by beenthinkin' 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
No, not for me. Trust isn't something i come by easily, so if you do something to make me lose it, i'll never trust you again.
2007-10-14 03:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Points whore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think when you finally trust someone and trust them 100% and then the trust is breached - it's so damaging. and i think it's damaging in alot of ways. like - you sort of have to grieve what you thought was there in that relationship, you grieve the loss of the relationship and you now also have a lot of self doubt cause you made a not so good choice in trusting the untrustworthy person, in the first place. that's alot to work through and it takes a lot of time in turn.
for me, in the past i was able to trust again. but as i age, it becomes harder because i have learned that once someone shows you who they are (untrustworthy) believe it. because they aren't going to change just for you. now - it also depends on what the breach was to begin with. if you are feeling the sting from something that you can look back on and say that really wasn't so bad, that's alot different than something that you find devestating and a life blow.
at this phase for me - i feel without trust i really can't be close to someone because i am always worried about what i share with them - even minor stuff. and it really doesn't involve a lack of forgiveness - because i do forgive it. i just feel it unwise to ever forget it.
2007-10-14 04:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all enable me say that i'm so sorry that that's happening and desire that issues artwork out the best for you and your little ones. If he grow to be going to strip golf equipment, despite if or no longer you 2 have been intimate then it rather is a undertaking because of the fact he's lusting after different females. Him flirting with yet another woman is likewise risky, fantastically in the event that they artwork at the same time, because of the fact they could truthfully cheat in the event that they have not already. seems don't matter lots in those circumstances and not even nagging. Cheaters cheat. they could be with supermodels and in the event that they go with to cheat they're going to. you're able to be able to desire to choose in case you experience delicate staying with him and looking out any incorrect way, or leaving him because of the fact it feels like he's dishonest. you do no longer go with actual data for those issues. might you particularly stay and be cheated on or go away and stay in peace? residing without him will possibly no longer be worry-free yet your little ones may even see which you have a loveless marriage and could ultimately locate out that he's dishonest and additionally you're staying and the way will that impact their destiny relationships?
2016-12-14 17:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people do get it back, but you're setting yourself up for more pain. You can be near someone and still not trust them. You just have to lay down the law - no you may not borrow things, no I will not accept things from you or confide in you, no you may not be around my friends, and so on.
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2007-10-14 03:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible. But for the one who destroyed the trust, it will take much hard work. Much hard work. And for the one whose trust was destroyed, it is understandable for them to be suspicious for a very long time. The one who destroyed the trust will simply have to live with that. That is the price you pay when such damage is done.
But yes, it is possible.
Hannah J Paul
2007-10-14 03:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah J Paul 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the point is that that depands on the person and situation!
if u lose her/his trust and it's all about ur fault and every thing,it needs time,it may be fixed or not.
but if are not responsible for the action and the Guy misunderstood it well it has 2 sides,he can't understand it and never come back or he will come back because one day he will get it!
2007-10-14 04:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who completely betrayed me and I lost trust in her. But I got back trust in her when she saw me crying 'cause my sister was ill with anerexia (if that's how you spell it) and didn't tell anyone. I think you can get trust back if the person who you lost trust in does something like that.
2007-10-14 03:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by XxElexX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossible to get back trust just like when a arrow get release through stave it wont come back exactly if trust lost that it is lost you can expect any thing with that person except trust because trust burst first you must stop thinking about that person he cant recover that and it is impossible
2007-10-14 03:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its quite difficult but dear life is all about testing the people near u listen to ur heart if u feels that u should give 1 more chance then give otherwise forget take care -sanam's vinod
2007-10-14 05:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by vinsan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um ya. But it takes about 20 times longer just to get it back.
2007-10-14 03:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by Megs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋