Was it right for Jane Eyre to leave Mr. Rochester?

Question

I know there are many arguments about this topic and most of them are leaning from the "Yes" side. However, I need to get some ideas for the "No" side. Thank you very much! :D

Answer 1

No
Your soul mate only comes into your life once.

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Answer 3

No.
The trials and tribulations that beset Jane are those that every woman can identify with. The joy and fear of falling in love with Mr. Rochester (Edward) is inspiring. The tragic secret that Edward failed to disclose to Jane ~~ sending her away is so sad.


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Charlotte Bronte's "Jane Eyre," a beloved classic and remarkable work of literature, has long been one of my favorite novels. The book received high praise when first published, under a pen name, in 1847: "It has little or nothing of the old conventional stamp upon it ... but it is full of youthful vigour, of freshness and originality..." However, the novel also brought about much controversy because of the passionate and intense natures of both the heroine, Jane, the anti-hero, Mr. Rochester, and many of the issues it addressed, i.e., the "grosser and more animal passions," (sex). Oddly enough, and I never knew this until recently, the novel, when initially published, was subtitled, "An Autobiography," and Currer Bell was identified as the editor rather than the author. The subtitle was dropped in subsequent editions. In any case, I have revisited this work often over the years, and each time have discovered new and exciting elements in the narrative which never fail to move me.

Orphaned as an infant, Jane is taken in and cared for by her aunt, the mean spirited Mrs. Reed of Gateshead Hall. It is clear from the beginning that Mrs. Reed favors her own spoiled children and despises Jane, punishing her harshly for her perceived impudence. After a particularly cruel and unjust episode with her older cousin, John, Aunt Reed locks the ten year-old girl up in the dreaded "red-room," where her uncle died. Jane has a nervous fit as a consequence of being enclosed in a place she so fears. But not even the caring servant, Bessie, consoles her. She tells the child, "And you ought not to think yourself on an equality with the Misses Reed and Master Reed, because Missus kindly allows you to be brought up with them. They will have a great deal of money and you will have none: it is your place to be humble, and try to make yourself agreeable to them."

Mrs. Reed, no longer willing to cope with her niece, sends her away to board at the prison-like Lowood School. Charlotte Bronte and her sisters were, in fact, sent to the Clergy Daughter's School at Cowan Bridge in Lancashire. "The food was poor and insufficient and they were treated with inhuman severity." Two of the Bronte sisters actually died as a result of the treatment and the sickness contracted there. Lowood was modeled after the Clergy Daughter's Institution. Mr. Brocklehurst, the headmaster, an evangelic hypocrite, deprives his charges of basic necessities, while lining his pockets with charitable donations. There is some goodness, however, even at Lowood. Miss Temple, the kindly superintendent, mentors Jane and shows her affection. And Helen Burns, another student at Lowood, becomes her first friend. Jane is captivated by learning. Her intelligence becomes obvious to all, and despite the suffering she experiences at the school, once her education is complete, she chooses to stay on and teach.

One of the most amazing aspects of the vivid early scenes at Gateshead Hall and Lowood is that childhood, as we now understand it, simply did not exist in the 19th century. Children were seen as miniature adults, easily corrupted and inadequate, in need of stern education, discipline, and occasional corporeal punishment. Jane's strength of character becomes evident in that she is able to thrive in such sorry, often brutal, circumstances.

When Miss Temple leaves Lowood to marry, Jane places an advertisement in the local newspaper for a position as governess. She is offered a job at Thornfield Manor, where she is received by kindly housekeeper, Mrs. Fairfax. Her young charge, the precocious Adele Varens is the ward of Thornfield's owner, Edward Rochester, a brooding, passionate man with a dark past he cannot escape. He travels frequently, but when he does return and meets Jane, there is an immediate connection between the two, although there remains the great difference in their social class and ages - he is a worldly-wise forty, and she a mere nineteen. And of course, there is a terrible secret, which inevitably will cause tremendous suffering. It is at Thornfield that the reader meets a wide range of characters who will effect Jane's future happiness.

This is a dark gothic romance - in fact, "Jane Eyre" epitomizes the best of gothic, post Romantic fiction. Unlike her sisters, Charlotte rejected the convention of the beautiful heroine. While writing "Jane Eyre," she told them, "I will show you a heroine as plain and as small as myself." The young woman does blossom beautifully when she falls in love, however. Although readers tend to visualize Mr. Rochester as handsome, he is not. This is no Heathcliff. Jane's and Edward's attractiveness lies in their inner selves, and their capacity to love and grow makes them both such splendid figures.

"Jane Eyre" has many recurring themes including: relationships between men and women, their roles and limitations in society; relations between social classes; religion and morality; the need to fulfill the desires of loved ones versus the necessity to maintain one's personal integrity; the conflict between reason and passion, and, of course, Jane's deep need to love and be loved. However, primary to the tale is the magnificent, complex character of Jane herself.

Long before the women's suffrage movement, Miss Bronte created, in the character of Jane, an intelligent, independent, strong-willed female, determined to make her place in the world. Equality between the sexes is not brought up in the novel, neither legally nor politically. What the persona of Jane addresses here is obvious in the following very famous lines: "Women are supposed to be very calm generally: but women feel just as men feel; they need exercise for their faculties, and a field for their efforts as much as their brothers do; they suffer from too rigid a restraint, too absolute a stagnation, precisely as men would suffer; and it is narrow-minded in their more privileged fellow-creatures to say that they ought to confine themselves to making puddings and knitting stockings, to playing on the piano and embroidering bags. It is thoughtless to condemn them, or laugh at them, if they seek to do more or learn more than custom has pronounced necessary for their sex."

Their society did not encourage women to fulfill their talents. Twenty-year old Charlotte wrote to Robert Southey, the poet laureate, for encouragement in her writing. His response shows the barriers creative women faced: "Literature cannot be the business of a woman's life, and it ought not to be. The more she is engaged in her proper duties, the less leisure will she have for it, even as an accomplishment and a recreation."


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