premature ejaculation?

Question

selfish or a real problem? I think that guys should try harder not to *** to soon, it is very annoying, nothing worse than climbing on top and a mintute later u have to slow down, stop or change positions.

thequiteone - u call me a slappa for talking about sex? Hmmphh u probably all hating cos u dont have the social skills or looks to get laid, -good luck with that. are you a premmer by anychance?

i dont mind so much if it is genuine, but It annoys me, when they only last a few minutes, have a short rest and go again again, but in total the sex for me is not that long cos obviously there has been a short break. I think them men should make more of an effort to last about 20 mins, and then go again again.

I come easy during foreplay, but it takes me a longer time to come thro intercourse. i just think that the men dont try hard enough to satisfy me. it seems unfair when they come a few times and i only manage once or twice.

my last boyf who had a pencil dick as well as PE told me it was cos i was very tight lol. I guess there is hope for me after i have given birth ha ha.

Answer 1

yeah i hate that it makes me angry and makes me feel like if i been treated like some sort of slu t...

Answer 2

It happens to men once or a few times in their lives. Its annoying to female partners and its unexpected and embarrassing also to the man but its not always the mans fault. The fact that he arrives at climax much earlier than you doesn't mean he's selfish, unless of course if he's not bothered by it at all. He's probably all stimulated by your feel and touch and his potential is rapidly peaked. You have to understand him, give him a few minutes or more and let him try again. The subsequent sessions will usually be much longer. Take your time, don't rush.
A simple training technique which helps(but not always) is to try masturbating him and then let go before he comes(don't let him come), then continue until he's almost there then let go again without letting him release. Keep repeating this for as long as you can manage then let him have you. Do this as often as possible. Happy love-making!

Answer 3

For some men it is a real problem, if the penis is ultra sensitive to stimulation the slightest thing can make it go off! some men don't even get as far as penetration before they spurt, try pinching it at the base between two fingers that can delay the inevitable for a while, also after he's come for the first time, give him a few minutes & try a bit of oral stimulation to get him going again, second time round should last a bit longer!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

PE is a psychological problem in 99 percent cases.Anxiety,lack of confidence,ignorance etc are reasons.If you read Casanova or see porno video,you will think that sex lasts for hours.It is all editted shows.Real sex lasts only few minutes,2 to 7 minutes,the average being 3 minutes.If you think that you have no capacity to satisfy woman,you are finished.Best thing to prevent PE is having confidence.Even size of penis does not matter.If you want to improve time you dont RUSH,be slow initially and incease speed and impact gradually.Keep mind pre occupied(chewing gum good).Oil or gelly will help to some extent.Kegel exercise is another solution.The herbal tablets(formulation) CONFIDO (Himalaya Pharmaceuticals) may be helpful.
PE the maximum complaint of men all over the world.

Answer 6

You just described 99% of men on the planet. Here is the solution. Dont let him stop when he has an orgasam, just keep going. He will stay hard, and the next one will take ALOT longer to get there. If that isnt long enough for you, keep him going again. I guarantee #3 will be a long time comming. Remamber, this only works if the action doesnt stop or even slow down during and after his orgasim.

Answer 7

Strictly going by the falling standards everywhere, I am going to safely presume that the performance by the actors was sub-par, which resulted in the premature ejaculate from Lord McFudd being thrust upon the rest of the audience. The appropriate follow-up to this incident can only be for His Lordship to turn around, bend over, lower his trousers and drawers and then proceed to moon the audience as well as the deserving cast members.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Sweetheart, it is really different for all men, some can perform intercourse for up to twenty minutes before they ejaculate, probably the majority of men last up to five to seven minutes before ejaculation.

That is why foreplay is so impotent, if you need multiple orgasms then your partner must caress your gene ital area with fingers to achieve also performing oral sex while caressing your g Spot will help achieve a climax several times

Answer 10

with some its a real problem, prostate problems can cause this also. You will know he's selfish if when all is done you are put to one side 'so to speak'. Then the solution to that is talk about it, and if that doesn't help maybe the relationship isn't right for you or him.

Answer 11

Aww bless the best thing to do to try and solve this problem is to actually gently but firmly pull his balls downwards. it will stop him coming so fast. Or just stop if he feels he is close and let him give you oral. if you love him though you can just laugh with him about it, it's not the most important thing!
lol good luck and have fun!