When I was a kid I was just in the basement and I heard a bunch of noise. I went upstairs and my Foster mom was on the floor in the kitchen crying and some dude I never saw was yelling at her.
I ran and tried to pull him away but he socked me in the head really hard and I tfell down hought I was gonna die.
We both woke up OK, but it was just really scary and I just wondered if anyone else had times like this?
2007-10-14 01:54:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Thanks WalkThis... I'm sorry about your Dad.
2007-10-14 02:02:47 · update #1
Harmie,
No. Social Services put me in a new home a couple of days layter and i never seen either of them again.
2007-10-15 00:56:18 · update #2
I could say it was being raped, or mollested, or beaten by a boyfriend, but my worst memory was my mother screaming at me, telling me how selfish I was and hating me because I tried to kill myself. I can take the betrayal of lovers, thay can take my body and use it for sex or as a punching bag, but if my mother ever turned on me like that again I don't think I could recover. But on a brighter note, attempting suicide was also the best memory I have, because it was the turning point that brought me back to my family and back to the people I love most. We can never understand why terrible things happen to us, we can never blame ourselves or others enough, but if you can find one little piece from those experiences that can make your life better or help someone else, no matter how bad they are, perhaps you can heal. But the way I always saw it was, better it happen to me, rather than my best friend. But I agree with someone up the line a bit who said it was the memory they couldn't remember. Because that is the one that haunts you always. You can never heal from that, because you never know what really happened, all you have is snippet of emotion that you remember and some fearful fragments of disjointed images. It gives you shivers in the dark of the night.
2007-10-14 02:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by cheeky_lil_pixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty bad. Did you ever find out who the guy was?
My worst memory was after my dad died, when I was 6. We lived in these bad apartments in Los Angeles, and a group of neighborhood kids had forced my brother and I to sit by a dumpster in an alleyway and watch these two boys (ages 11 and 14) have sex with each other, in every way imaginable. If we tried to escape, we got our wrists twisted. It was horrible. We've never told anybody in our family to this day.
2007-10-14 09:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Stephy B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choose:
being molested by the babysitter and being threatened to be thrown off a building if I told...being beaten on a regular basis by my mother until I was nicknamed "Evil Kneivel" at school for so many broken bones...being constantly harrassed and threatened and beaten up at school because the other kids were rich and we were poor...losing my only friend in school to a rare disease...as an adult, being stabbed and raped by an ex after stalking me...feeling a good friend die in my arms after being shot by a child on crack...being beaten by an alcoholic husband on a regular basis until you can't take it anymore and start beating back...and these are just some of the highlights...yes, I am a misantrope and proud of it!
2007-10-14 09:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by beetlejuice49423 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only remember the good things in my past. The bad ones only surface occasionally. Like with your question. I remember looking out the window of my foster parents on Christmas day...waiting for my mother to come get me. She never showed. I guess that's why I'm such a prude today.
2007-10-14 09:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by chilicooker_mkb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 6 years old and i was sitting next to my ma and my step dad came and put his hand up and said "i swear God created this girl from the shi*est mud on earth" i remember one tear falling down my cheek and looking at mt ma, and her not saying anything
2007-10-14 09:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats scary as hell... Your brave for trying to help her.
Mine... Although I still havent realised it actually happened (in denial), it would be my dad passing away.
2007-10-14 08:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to recount some terrible things, started thinking about them and bascially was like, no thanks... I doubt you're going to get people to bite on reliving their truly horrible fears on YA. Then again, you never know, it would likely be good for "us" but it's not easy.
2007-10-14 09:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by SolarWind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are memories I can't remember and they are the worst ones, because I can't remember them. Maybe they never happened.
2007-10-14 09:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by cavassi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell in front of a guy i liked now i cant look at him in the face
2007-10-14 08:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋