both of us ar 17..I'm Bi..This girl my good fren.. We actually made out quite lots of time before.. But then. Donno since when or what reason.. We stop making out.. And remain as friend.. We never actually talk about why we made out or how did It happen. I admit That I in love with her. But she is so in love with this other boy. She did told a fren of mine that she know I like her..and she dont like it. And from tat time. I stop letting her feel that i have feeling. But then.. few days ago. She got into me and made out with me again.. Then . after tat few days.. I try to get close to her..and she is trying to seduce me.. but when i tried to kiss her. she escape.. What the hell is happening? she is driving me crazy. Am I a Toy or experimental things for her? wow.. then she took lots of experience from me.. It really hurt me a lot.. Give me a clue!
2007-10-14 01:37:00 · 8 answers · asked by *slush.* 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
my take on how she acts is that she does not want people to see her as bi or lesbian. she wants people to think she is straight.
she likes the sex with you, and she likes you...but she does not want to be in love with you, or be in a dating relationship with you.
she is using you. she gets the sex and love she wants (and maybe needs) from you...but she is not willing to give you what you need...which is a love relationship with her.
you are going to have to summon your strength...your self-respect...and keep her at arm's length. be her friend...but stop giving her sex. it is not cool how she is treating you.
i think you should let her know that even though you love her and would like to be with her, there is not going to be any more sneaking around for sex, because it is messing with your head and your heart. if she really does care for you (and not just herself!) she will respect that.
hang in there girl, find yourself someone who will return your feelings and be proud to be with you!
2007-10-14 02:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by waterlin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same situation... There's a song called 'wasting my time', by Boomkat, and it describes EXACTLY what is happening.
Basically what she is doing, is giving you false hope when all she really wants is the attention. I know how hard it is to accept that the girl you love won't love you back, but I don't think its a good idea to mess around with this. Remember that its your heart that you're playing with, and if she doesn't have feelings for you, you're going to get hurt!
Its fun and all when it comes to flirting and kissing her every now and then, but eventually you are going to want more than she will want to give.
My advice to you is that you either tell her that you guys can't mess around anymore because you're gonna get too attached, or you just try and spend less time with her, and when your feelings have gone, you girls can go back to being good friends...
Please just be careful, honey! You sound so sweet, and getting your heart broken isn't something I'd wish upon anyone...
**mwahhh**
2007-10-14 03:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's one of those girl that need to know that there's alway someone out there who likes her and come to her everytime she needs somebody, you know how everytime she wanna kiss you she can but when you wanna she run away? that's exactly what makes her feel like she have you to fall on whenever her relationship with someone she likes doesn't work out, it doesn't mean that she likes you though, it means she's using you, you deserve more then that talk to her about how you don't appreciate what she's doing and try to stop hanging out with her, the most important thing is don't let her kiss you anymore, because kissing can lead to a lot of emmotion and you can fall in love with a person very easily by kissing them too often...
2007-10-14 04:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends sounds like she's all over the place
So are you for putting up with her behaviour.
Have a serious word with her and sort it out
2007-10-14 02:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by StretfordEnder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to this girl and ask her what is going on, is she serious or is she just leading you on? It is the only way you are going to work it out
2007-10-14 01:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by DC 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think youre trying to seduce eachother . good luck to both of you .
2007-10-14 13:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes just using you
2007-10-14 02:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by tasty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are her toy, wanna swap?
2007-10-14 01:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋