11 weeks pregnant and so stressed.?

Question

hi im 11 weeks pregnant im moving house and everythig seems to be going wrong i feel so sad and keep crying! i know this isnt a question but i just wanted to tell someone as no body else seems to be listning to me at home.

Answer 1

Ahh bless you, im feeling crap just lately im 14 weeks and my partner is away in Afghan, he's missing the whole pregnancy. Hes due home 3 weeks or so before the birth. Its hard without him, the constant worry isnt doing me or baby any good. Ive got 5 months to go without out him.

keep ya chin up x

Answer 2

Oh hun, don't worry about it. It will get better. I feel like that too most of the time. Have a lot on my plate with final year in uni, work, building a house etc and am 29 weeks pregnant. Sometimes i just go into a room and have a big cry to get it off my chest. Hormones really don't help the situation, but you know what will? As soon as you feel your baby kick you won't pay attention to whatever goes wrong in your life. It helps you focus and realise that you have a more important thing to tend to. So hang in there, things will get better. Best of luck and enjoy your pregnancy.

Answer 3

He is probably very stressed because as you said, you cannot afford even marriage counseling so surely there is a financial strain, another mouth to feed, another life to watch over and take care of that will be arriving... he is just stressed, if this is new then talk to him about it and make sure he knows he is not alone and that if he is overly stressed to handle it in a different way other than being mean to you

Answer 4

I feel for you I really do!
At 8 weeks Preg my baby's father wanted me to have an abortion.
At 20 weeks I started a new job.
At 23 weeks I was homeless by my Landlord and then I had to move 2 times and I still haven't got my own place at 26 weeks.
I was soo-ooo STRESSED!

Just think positive, if it wasn't for my good freinds I wouldn't be here now! You will get over it I can assure you and concentrate on your baby, I know you have a long way to go but think of the good things.
CONGRATULATIONS!

Answer 5

Do you really have to be moving, right now? Is there any way to delay the move until after your baby is born, or even a little longer, like when the baby is a little bit older? Changes while you are pregnant or directly following the birth are, sometimes, difficult to handle. Probably due to the hormones, you are under some stress. Perhaps the hormones make your body try to tell you to take it easy, stay in one place, etc. Well, either way, if you need to move, then get as much help as you possibly can - and be certain to do a lot more for YOU right now, despite the move. Call on family and friends. Have them come and keep you company when you are involved in the moving details. Have little "moving parites" that involve people who can be there with you - go to their homes, too, to get away from the tension, for a bit here and there. Tell the people who are close to you how you are feeling, and if need be, try going to a place away from the things that are causing you all of this stress, to do so. If need be, tell the people close to you that you feel like maybe they need to take over more of the moving details, so that you can take care of yourself and the baby, and then do that - allow them to do more of the details, whatever they happen to be. If you already have other children, have them help if they are old enough, or get family or friends to help with them, if they are younger. If those people don't listen, then go to your OBGYN and tell him or her how you are feeling. Let this doctor try to sort it out and give you some advice. Finally, if you go to some sort of church, you can try asking for some of the people to help you out. Our church sometimes prepares meals and other things to help people who are going through stressful situations. Sometimes the people close to us don't understand the strong hormonal changes a woman's body must endure during pregnancy. Especially, if we were very strong in the first place, they just don't get it. You really need to help the person/persons involved to understand that you need to step back, somewhat, from the situation and let them handle the details, for now. Let them know you are trying to take care of the baby inside of you. Sometimes, no matter how understanding the people around us happen to be, if we just keep doing the things that are causing us to feel overwhelmed, they untentionally will allow us to keep doing them. You need to decide how much you can do, and then stop there. No one else will do this for you.

Answer 6

i moved home wen i was 15 weeks pregnant and had to move town too but it does get better i promise you just have to keep thinking you have to smile no matte rhow bad it gets to stay happy for the baby.
take some time out for u during the day have relaxing baths and try and rest as much as u can, i dont know if uve got morning sickness too but i did and this didnt help things if u find something u can eat without it returning eat mor eof that to keep ur energy up the first 3 months and last three months r the worst so enjoy the next stage coming up its worth it!

Answer 7

We moved into a rented house when I was 3 months (because we were actually supposed to leave for the US) then moved again the day before the birth into the house be bought when the US thing fell apart. You can do it!!! Rest as much as you can and don't do any lifting or carrying. Good luck.

Answer 8

honey 112 don't let it get you down. I am not a woman but I was 18 when my mother had my 2nd sister. I watched her at times like you describe and it was awful. Things will get better. Having a baby as Mother put it is supposed to be one of the Happiest Days in a woman's life. Think of the child and what JOY that child can bring into your lives.

I don't want to sound like some pastor because I need one myself. May I ask that you find time to pray and ask GOD to help you during this time. The answers may not come as fast as you want but GOD answers all prayers.

STAY SAFE WITH CHRIST in your HEART!!!
Bulldog

Answer 9

hi sweetie, don't worry too much.
moving house is hard & stressful when your not pregnant, so to have this ontop of being pregnant sucks.
your emotions will play havoc for a while, actually most of your pregnancy & after the bub arrives!
keep your chin up, watch a funny movie & have a nice bath or simply do whatever you enjoy doing. :)
you will get through it & be laughing in no time!!!

Answer 10

O hun, I know how you feel. I get like this now and I am 37weeks, unfortuately its one of those things. I always find a nice relaxing bath with some radox and loads of bubbles helps, try getting some 'me time' and let every thing out and try not to keep things bottled up because it will only make you feel worse.

good luck x