so. a long timeago, i slept over at my best friends house and we ended up making out. before this, we'd never done anything like that... maybe kissed on the cheek once or twice. we'd grown fond of holding each other for extended periods of time (more than half an hour). and since then, everytime i sleep over, we end up making out... we flirt with each other and we both experience urges and sesntations when we're together normally, such as butterflies.
so, i'm guessing this is a dumb question, but ...? experimenting, phase, or... ?
2007-10-13 19:58:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well.. i'm female. so, obviously she is too. yes, i can imagine myself with her for a long time... we've talked about how we have to be 'this close forever". we talk about a lot of things... we talk and ask each other wuestions about "what gives you butterflies" or "what if i were to kiss you if is was tthere". we've done a lot of making out and fondling..
2007-10-13 20:19:37 · update #1
i often think that i am probably... bisexual.. i find myself attractd to her soo mcuh... i've never been so attracted to anyyone.
2007-10-13 20:21:14 · update #2
If you want to fondle her so that she feels sexually complete, then you might know the answer.
See if she will let you masage her then try to go further.
If she agrees to do a 69 with you, and you enjoy it, you should have no doubt.
Keep in mind that she could be experimenting, too, and might stop sooner than you think.
Good Luck!
2007-10-13 22:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to answer that question, do you like this friend or do you "like" this friend. I mean, have you ever gotten the urge to date other men/women (depending on your gender). Do you think that you will outgrow this or will you continue like this with your friend for a while. Maybe you should have a heart to heart talk with your friend and ask them how they feel about all this and maybe that will smooth things out for you a little bit. besides, you never know what the future holds if you don't try to even take a chance on love and life.
2007-10-14 03:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by S A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think it might be more then a phase here. But question here...have you ever slept with the opposite sex?
I think you have to try both sides to know what you really are.
I know from some conversations with other gay men that they have had sex with both males and females but find that males turned them on before deciding they were gay. They went through the Bisexual thing for a while until they decided what they really were.
2007-10-14 03:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by DGH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are feeling urges and are constantly making out with your friend when you sleep over... then i would think you might be past just experimenting
2007-10-14 09:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by DC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you desire this person. Can you get this excited about anyone else?
2007-10-14 03:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by flip4it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the big question is how old ru that depends on alot of it
2007-10-14 05:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by JOHNNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have bi or lesbian tendencies . nothing to panic over .
2007-10-14 20:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋