Would you actually wait for marriage to have sex if that is what the woman wanted to do?
2007-10-13 19:57:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I'm so glad some of yo usaid yes.
oh and frankly, women do want to get marred today. People still do fall in love, it's not all about money.
2007-10-13 20:06:09 · update #1
You can find out what turns your partner on/off by asking about it. Amazingly enough there are still ppl who wait for the wedding night.
2007-10-13 20:11:16 · update #2
I think us men should bring anything into our relationship that we want or expect from our wives.
I wanted to marry a virgin, so I waited.
I have always felt that saying men have the right to experiment was wrong, if the women can not.
So rather then feeling women ought to be able to play the field, I feel men should respect themselves (and their future wife) enough to wait.
2007-10-16 05:21:06 · answer #1 · answered by teamepler@verizon.net 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well if the woman actually wanted it, then she would under no circumstances give in to the contrary. So if the guy truly loved her, he would wait or leave her.
Now since the question is intended to be personalized. I personally would have some trouble with it, so i would have to decide what I prefer, love or sex. I hope I meet one of these women one day, cuz I prefer Love.
2007-10-13 20:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
The answer is a definite NO.
A women who is a feminist plus does not want sex, this is a recipe for disaster. Very likely a lesbian - not wife material that’s for sure. Guys don’t marry lesbians or a feminist and for God’s sake not both a lesbian and a feminist. Guys steer clear of this kind of nightmare.
2007-10-15 14:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by tom 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope.
1- I do not believe in the institution of marriage.
2- Sex should not be used as an incentive to enter a legally binding state such as marriage.
2007-10-13 21:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Whether the woman wanted to have it out of marriage or during the night of the wedding; or afterwards, well... I'd do it only after marriage, regardless of what my sweetheart would want.
2007-10-13 20:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by Green Phantom 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No. I'm not a fan of religion so I can't see my self in a relationship with a woman that religious, and I'm at the place where i want to be in a mature adult relationship, and that means not pouring ice on myself after every date like in junior high.
2007-10-14 06:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by DC FURY 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
As a woman one should prefer men DID NOT wait for marriage to have sex is my humble opinion. It will be terrible if the man did and finds out that the woman did not wait until marriage to have sex. With hymen and other easy ways to know, women should not take this risk. (it is ridiculous to argue hymen can break on its own or there was no hymen at all, for which the chances are like a 1000 in a million women)
But this is only my humble opinion on the matter and I have no answer on whether or whether not men will wait for marriage to have sex.
2007-10-13 20:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by ByTheWay 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
It would depend on my other options.
If I was young and attractive and had a lot of other women with an attractiveness level relative to mine or better looking than me trying to get in my pants then probably not.
If I wasn't really going to be giving anything up then yeah, probably, but you can never really plan for the unexpected.
2007-10-13 20:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by Qui Je 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
no because I wouldnt want to find out she had a fetish for a strap on - when I can no longer run away and break all comms with out legal ramifications.
just cos she doesnt want sex with me till marriage doesnt mean she hast developed her tastes at all, regardless of what she says - does it.
I want to know what shes into and what Im into with her.
waiting is one thing - waiting till marriage - like hell.
2007-10-14 07:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by Andy C 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Nope. Plently of nice well-adjusted women who like sex and can't get enough of it. I'll leave the "no-sex-till marriage" types for male doormats.
2007-10-13 22:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋