That they aren't just using you.
2007-10-13 19:57:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
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2007-10-13 20:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by curious1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good question.
Friends that make you laugh and smile are important....but they may be fake.I'm not saying they are, but you never know.
The friends that are your true friends are the ones that aren't embarrassed to tell other people they're your friend, and they don't talk behind your back. They compliment you and really mean it. They smile when you're around and you light up their world. They want to hang out with you sometimes on the weekends, not just at school. They are always there for you when you need them, and always lend a helping hand. They don't lie to you and tell you the hard truth when it needs to be said. They don't talk to you one day then ignore you the next. They respect you and don't make rude comments about you...and most importantly, they love you and will get out of their way to help you.
Sometimes you can't tell if people are using you - they may seem like the perfect friend, but really they're not. I guess it depends on whether or not you feel let down by them alot. I have felt letdown and unfairly treated by my friends before. I guess you just know.
~~Hope this helps, and good luck
A star for you ..!
xx
2007-10-13 20:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ уσυ вєℓσηg ωιтн мє ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to judge in a routine abt who can be ur real friends coz u never know who will behave in which way.
It takes years to know such kind of people its not that you should judge them always but you shouldnt come to any conclusion abt anyone in short time.
There are some traits of people would help you to determine:
The people who hurt you for no reason,makes you feel that ur the worst person on this earth and are always in proving how they are better than you.
Beware!Be away from such people they can never be real friends.
On the contrary those who boost ur self esteem,compliment you for what you deserve,never hurt you and try to divert you and make you happy when the times are bad.
These kind of people can be ur real friends.
2007-10-13 20:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by nilesh s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, one of the most important things is if your friend is there for you during good times and bad, if they are honest and can be trusted, if they seem to know when you are having a bad day and just want to make your day a little better!!
2007-10-13 21:19:47 · answer #4 · answered by Ginny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
real friends always want to be with you (meaning just 'hang out') dont ask you for gifts or favors and also dont talk about you behind your back
2007-10-13 20:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may take a while but it eventually comes out and when it does it sucks.
2007-10-13 20:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by southern belle <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those who stick by you and are concerned when your sick or feeling down a friend to cheer you up
2007-10-14 06:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never have to worry about it...I don't have any "friends"
2007-10-13 20:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Always Curious 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋