I loved lady and she make me divorce my wife and left kids just for her then she ignored me but i still lv her

Question

after i loved her and gave her all what she wanted from me she tric me and forgot everything between us.

Answer 1

I had a very similar situation.
The gentleman was Muslim.
He started seeing me knowing that he had a wife and 6 kids in Pakistan.
He knew when he had unprotected sex with me exactly what he was taking a risk about.
Of course after 6 months of this, I became pregnant.
He then told me that he had a wife and 6 kids.
He offered me to become his second wife, I would be in the United States, and his other wife would stay in Pakistan.
I said NO.

He then offered to leave/divorce his wife and wanted to take a picture of our son to pakistan. (supposedly to show his sick mother before she died)

Out of fear that he would use it to establish a passport and take our son I told him to forget the whole thing and pretend like it never happened.

He said that he would be coming back for his son when his son turned 5 years old and made me promise that I would let his son become Muslim.

I told him that I would not block his son from choosing to become Muslim but that I would never let him take him from me.

He went back and divorced his wife anyway.

There was an earthquake over there and It was awhile before he came back to the United States.

He came back looking for me and I ignored him and didn't ever speak to him again.

I do know where I could find him if I needed to, but I will never let him know that I know.

He hurt me pretty bad. Now every person since him I have had doubts about.

Its my issue but I have a problem believing that people actually tell the truth about anything. There is usually a component of truth and something is hidden. I am pretty good now at finding out what is being hidden. I kind of Hate the whole thing but its something I needed to learn.

You Dear Sir, have been taught a lesson. Maybe you can work things out with your wife. I believe you loved her, the other woman, and your wife. I had a husband who I left, prior to my second deception by the Pakistani guy but he couldnt keep his winkie in his pants and got another girl pregnant, this was BEFORE I ended up being the other woman.

I told him that he had better go to her and try to work it out because I was done. He used to bring her kids over when he would come to visit our kids and shove it in my face. I loved the little girl, it wasnt her fault that my ex-hubby was such an ***. He told me he would dump the woman, her two kids and the little girl if I would just take him back.

As much as this actually stroked my ego...it made it worse...he could create another child with another woman, and then would throw them to the side if I would just take him back when he could have had me if he had been good to me in the first place!

Long story short, the other woman lost her kids, lost him, and she KNEW him and ME and persued him while we were married. That was what was due her.

Now my ex is crazy.

Sometimes I feel responsible, but I know better. He made the choices and the lack of medication and the chicken behavior of getting hooked on drugs...everything was his choice, he was certainly running his show.

So what you need to know is that YOU need to find out WHY you behave this way. YOU need to fix YOU. Then you need to really make sure that the next commitment you make in your life is a 100% untill death commitment. Stop your madness. Start with YOU. Take Care Dear. You do have a heart, but you need to develop the part of you that must have been stagnant as a child. You therapist can help you with this. Take Care.-Rachel.

Answer 2

You cheated on your wife and left your kids for a woman that played you! Aren't you getting just what you deserve? What goes around comes around and now you've lost your family behind it all. Don't you feel like a trick? Because thats exactly what she treated you as. I don't blame her because you would have done the same to her....married her and then cheat on her. She was just smart enough to leave you before you tried. She didn't make you divorce your wife and leave your kids...you chose to do that! You thought the grass was greener on the other side...you was selfish and didn't think about your family. Now you have to deal with your choices. Wherever she's at....tell her I said...."play on, player!

Answer 3

you in no way flow away your loved ones to decide for something you think of could be extra useful. Now you're precisely the place they warn you would be in case you flow away. How ought to you forget approximately approximately your toddlers for some lady??? you're a terrible father for doing that!!

Answer 4

Its called KARMA. Idiot. Let the homewrecker go, get into counseling and maybe someday you'll be a real man and fit for a good woman, little cheating lieing boy.

Answer 5

I agree with answer 1

Answer 6

You left your wife and kids because you had something new and exciting to go to....now you have seen her true colours you are going to have to live with that decision forever!

Answer 7

Are you hurting? Now you know how your wife felt. This makes me hopeful when I see things like this. So I guess men do eventually get back the s**t they do. Thanks for the post. Made my day.

Answer 8

For all you other men out there, this goes to show you the grass is not always greener.

Answer 9

Did you really think that the grass was going to stay greener for ever? I think you are sleeping in the bed you made. Enjoy!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

Get one thing straight. Nobody made you do anything. You did it because you wanted to. Tough break.