Isn't sex just for reproduction or satisfying the lust of a person? Is lust related to love then?
2007-10-13 19:02:26 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sex is the ultimate physical act of love. sex is a gift from God so that procreation is as enjoyable and it is also a gift that makes two couple stay together. sex should come with love, acceptance, respect, loyalty, commitment and trust. without it, its just a physical thing. nothing more.
2007-10-13 19:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by brazenlove 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The way sex is perceived, is in the eye of the beholder.
To some people, sex is lust.
To other people, sex is because of love only.
And, some people think love does not have anything to do with sex .. they can have sex with anyone.
There are people who could never have sex with another person, unless they were totally in love with them. When they love the person, then the lust comes naturally for them.
To some people, the highest degree of love would come from giving their lover the most valuable, and most hig, gift of themself.
Sex was made for holy marriage, by God ... thus, reproduction thereafter.
2007-10-13 19:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LUST has nothing at all to do with Love - lust is an animal desire to dominate and take - - Love is all about sharing, caring, and respecting. Sex can be a way of sharing and caring in a loving relationship, but all too often people abuse it and it becomes useless or depressing.
LUST is actually considered a sin in many religions because it is a selfish desire. NO, sorry - it is not at all related to love.
2007-10-13 19:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Monogamy, respect, devotion and selflessness is the highest degree of love that you can show your soul mate. Children are produced everyday without the benefit of sex. People lust or covet what they see everyday and that has nothing to do with love. Lust satisfies the person exhibiting it, but love seeks to satisfy the lover and the person being loved. Lust is a desire. We would die without Love, for that is a Necessity.
2007-10-13 19:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by naughtycat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lust for your lover is very good, but it isn't the highest degree of love in my opinion. The highest degree is just being there through tough times. It's much more important to stand strong for their personality and mindset than it is to fulfill a human reaction.
Don't get me wrong sex with your partner is still a really good way to affirm your feelings towards them, but it's just not the most stable commitment to them.
So, in other words, lust is related to love but definitely isn't the whole part of love.
2007-10-13 19:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♪♫ Sara ♪♫♪ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You can have sex with people you don't love. The highest degree of love in my opinion would be a combination of respect, honesty, and trust.
Biologically sex is for reproduction. Emotionally it is to satisfy the lust or love issues. Our bodies are structured to want to reproduce, therefore sex is an attractive activity, and creates emotional and physical needs in a person.
Lust can be realted to love in that you notice the other person and are attracted to them, then after getting to know the person you can love them. With or without sex.
2007-10-13 19:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by mary h 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must be getting your disinformation out of a neocon manual.
Everything you said is wrong.
1. Only pseudo-religious lunatics believe sex is just for reproducing children so they can be brainwashed into the same cult as their parents. Sex is the physical expression of a relationship between two consenting individuals--not a social duty ordered up by tin-god leaders.
2. Lust is a term usually used for overactive glands or for a desire to have sex separated from any good reason why you should. Lust in your heart is good; what you do about it needs to be thought out.
3.Passion is lust in context of its being felt for someone you've checked out and found to be admirable--hence worth loving.
4. Love is admiration for anyone, finding them to be a strong enough positive that the desire to gain pleasure by performing sex together becomes immediate or important.
5. The purpose of sex is to give pleasure to someone you admire and like more than anyone else, for mutual purposes of being darned happy together.
6. Go read The Psychology of Romantic Love by Nathaniel Branden--quick.
2007-10-13 19:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Robert David M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First comes infatuation, attraction and the desire for a relationship.
Then come respect, trust and honesty.
As far as I'm concerned it works both ways.
You both have to feel these things are important.
To have the wisdom and common sense to treat the person you desire, like you would like to be treated.
To me definition of lust is to fulfill a need.
The definition of Love and infatuation are entirely two different things.
When you are 16 and think you are in love, you are sadly mistaken if you think you are in love.
That is absolute infatuation.
Love, is measured by the devotion you have for one another.
Love means to take special care that you never betray one another.
If you respect yourself, only then can you be respected.
Love grows with time.
I'm 72 years old and just celebrated my 50th Golden Wedding Anniversary.
My love for my husband still grows deeper and stronger as time goes by.
I believe this is because we have always tried, to the best of our ability, to conducted our selves in a manner to build good memories.
After 50 years of marriage we still have a great amount of respect for each other and we have tried to be all we can be to each other.
Sex is a very important part of real love and when it happens to you and you find real love you will know that it's not just lust.
I hope this helps with your question.
2007-10-13 19:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disagree, the highest form of love you can give to your lover is respect.
Sex is not just for reproduction it is just to get your leg over the other person.
No lust is not related to love and that's where people get the wrong idea, they mistake lust for love.
2007-10-13 19:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That would make a good "line" were it true,which it is not. There are so many things that go to make up the highest form of love,i.e. commitment,communication,putting him/her before yourself,kindness,sharing the workload at home especially if both people work, help in raising the children (that takes putting ones priorities in order)-sex is for reproduction,yes, but also in the bible God has said it is for pleasure-read the Song of Solomon! etc.
2007-10-13 19:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by marlynembrindle 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When two person are apart or not in communication how can they be love. Having to person laying on each others the sound the body motion and body language do all the f***k*** . That keep them together with warm and great love.
Need stop the sex this will never stop yr love.
2007-10-13 19:08:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋