My parents are possibly getting a divorce, i'm not happy bout it, but im not happy with my dad so i don't really want him back in the house now, but i don't want them to seperate. What should I do?? Please help me!!
2007-10-13 18:58:36 · 5 answers · asked by a person whos cool like that 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh i really love my dad and its been getting better its just annoying
2007-10-13 19:05:38 · update #1
and we come from a christian household so its just so cunfusing
2007-10-13 19:08:08 · update #2
plus my dad is tring he just doesn't know how to parent yet but at least hes trying
2007-10-13 19:10:21 · update #3
P.s. this is my first question eva so srry if its cunfusing
2007-10-13 19:11:52 · update #4
ok i so know wat u mean cuz i'm going through that right now. my advice to u is that don't get in the middle of it. remember it's their problem and they need to sort it out. sometimes having them not together is better because do u really want to hear the screaming and fighting and tears till u go to college? think about it. {btw listening to music really helps!}
2007-10-13 19:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by birdy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey-Parents are most times annoying that is normal. We can either be exactly like them or opposites and there will be friction. Their marriage ending is sad and is also a fact today that over half of those lifetime commitments end. Know that your parents are both hurting-or feeling angry-fearful-happy-stunned etc. See what you can do to be of support to your mom and possibly dad. Make the most of it because you aren’t behind everyone’s steering wheel of life and so the sooner we accept the changes the sooner we can enjoy our lives. Sorry for the loss of life as you knew it-It will turn out fine-I promise.
Bc
2007-10-14 02:14:51 · answer #2 · answered by Bc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
things are getting better, it's just annoying, yet you still think they're getting a divorce and you love your dad, but you don't want him in the same house as you?
can you get your lines straight...
but anyway, if yoru parents get a divorce, i'm sorry, but you can't control that. even if you somehow persuaded them to stay in the marriage, you'd just have to endure the fighting
2007-10-14 02:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, embrace the spell check... use the spell check.. love the spell check...
Then realize that you cannot control your parents. They will make mistakes just like the rest of us.
Then love them no matter what. They are the only parents you will ever have.
Good luck. I will pray for you.
2007-10-14 02:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are going to divorce. Period. It seems to me that you think your dad is a jerk. Therefore, he doesn't belong. Be happy for your mother on making a better choice in life.
2007-10-14 02:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋