so hard hearted & disrespectful ???
he used to be very nice & considerate
i have done nothing
he refuses to answer
2007-10-13 17:47:37 · 7 answers · asked by Amanda H 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
could be that you have done something wrong unknowingly and it has offended him...could be his feelings for you have changed....but you wouldn't know unless you ask him...you can only make a marriage work if you talk about your issues and settle them while you still can...don't wait until your problems become unresolvable...talk to him honestly...tell him how you feel...ask him if you have done something to make him act this way....find a way to settle issues together by compromise...good luck
2007-10-13 17:55:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be cheating if he refuses to talk about the problems. hard hearted & disrespectful could be guilt.
or there could be a problem between you that he sees and can`t bring it up in case he hurts your feelings.It could also be he is bored with his marriage or life .You both must talk this out before it destroys you both.Keep trying until he gives in or seek a marriage guidance councillor
2007-10-14 01:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by kevinmccleanblack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally the answer would be to talk to him but that wont do any good if he refuses to answer. On the other hand, if you truly have done nothing to cause this perhaps he has. It may be that he has found someone else and is trying to make life miserable for you so that you will leave. Or maybe he is tired of being married and resents you for that. not all men are jerks but for every good man there is one who is that much of a jerk. If he makes you unhappy, leave him to see if he treats you any differently then, and if not, get a divorce and find one of those men who are not jerks to treat you better.
2007-10-14 01:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALOT OF MEN ONCE THEY HAVE YOU THEY ACT LIKE YOU ARE THERE PROPERTY AND THEY TREAT US LIKE **** WELL TO HELL WITH THEM DONT LET YOURSELF AND BE TOUGH DONT BE SUCHA GIRL AND IF THET DONT WORK THEN TELL HIM THAT ITS BETTER THAT HE KICK YOUS *** BECAUSE THE PAIN WILL GO AWAY BUT THE VERBAL ABUSE WONT LETS SEE HOW HE TAKES THAT ..TO MIND
2007-10-14 02:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by ajgbjl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's given up on you. Why? No one knows. Talk to him and find out.
2007-10-14 00:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by krollohare2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he used to be nice and considerate, now that he "has" you, he just says, "ah, f*ck it" and acts like his true self.
We must be with the same man, lol.
It's almost enough to make ya hate every man in the world, isn't it???? I know it is for me....
2007-10-14 00:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes men are jerks!
2007-10-14 00:51:49 · answer #7 · answered by slv02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋