I'm 16 haven't gone out on a weekend in years!!! I have no friends, at school people just walk pass me like I'm not even there. I try to talk but no one ever hears me. Never had a girlfriend neither...I'm not gothic or anything, average looking dude. My mom calles me patheitc and everyday I get reminded I have no life...I joined activities, but still I'm the one left behind or ignored...I've tried to open up, but no one is willing to open u[p to me. Is there any advice???
2007-10-13 17:44:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
my mom isn't that bad..she just wants me to be more out there, but it's easier said than done.
Now my dad...he's bad!!!
2007-10-13 17:54:57 · update #1
Your still young so, you haven't found your place in life yet. My advice is to move out of that house as soon as your 18. She sounds like a real *****.
2007-10-13 17:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Risnek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, your mom kind of sucks. If you can ignore her stupid comments and work on your self-esteem, that would be a start.
Maybe your problem is trying to fit in instead of trying to stand out. Everyone is so cookie cutter and generic nowadays that it's easy to get lost in a crowd and go unnoticed. Try finding something you're good at and run with it. I say as long as you can be happy with yourself, you don't really need all that extra crap that people think constitutes happiness.
2007-10-13 17:49:13 · answer #2 · answered by kelly4u2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
!6 is the right time to take control of your life and work hard on it.There is no advice but just a reminder to say that we all can do a lot better than what many people think or say,including ourselves.There are many late bloomers like you in the world,who are shining examples to many samrties.Go ahead and blaze your trail.
2007-10-13 18:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll be fine. Its just a high school thing. Everybody has their phases. Your loved, and you just have to love yourself first. That is the key......one day though you will be way better off than the ones that ignored you.......
2007-10-13 17:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by Roz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way well if you wanna chat with me add me on msn and talk to me marshmellow818@hotmail.com=]
2007-10-13 17:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋