My best friend's husband is a porn addict (yes, she knew that going into the marriage 7 years ago) and she feels like she's constantly being compared to porn stars during sex. She feels like she can't be vocal or herself during sex and plain just don't enjoy it anymore...they haven't been intimate in many months and now she feels like they're more just friends than a couple. She really has no desire for sex anyways, but does feel lately that she's being neglected. He ignores her in favor of video games when he's home.
But they have a new baby and she wants this relationship to work. I want both of them to be happy, but don't know how to advise her, so any help would be much appreciated!
2007-10-13 17:22:59 · 2 answers · asked by Bluebear 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of all you have got to get the husband in counselling to work on his porn addiction. It is true that the wife can never measure up to a porn star and they shouldn't need to. Too bad she had to marry this guy knowing his problem and too bad she fell pregnant but I don't see how she can go on without the situation changing. Maybe you need to concentrate your efforts to getting her out of there - can she stay with you until she gets back on her feet?
2007-10-13 17:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please seek professional counseling
2007-10-13 17:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋