my dad had an affair they didnt split up but my mom had a banner made that said stuff llike dear so and so he your headache now (bad word) she also painted cheater every where in red!! she also had a cake brought into his work that had their wedding pic wit a line through it!!!
2007-10-13 17:18:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Saying or doing hurtful things to an Ex, serves only ONE purpose!........it proves that you are still making an emotional investment in him. Hurting people hurt other people! Love, hate, anger, jealousy, revenge; etc are all emotions and I know you don't want to hear this, but the best action you can take is complete indifference to anything he has said or done. You have to realize that if he cheated on you and then broke up with you, he really didn't care about you as much as you thought, hoped or wished he did! Therefore, ANYTHING you do or say won't have any effect on him anyway. He's moved on and you need to do the same.
2016-05-22 08:10:30
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answered by ? 3
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I dated a guy for about 2 years, and loved him very much still do, but, i had gotten really tired of waiting on him to ask me to marry him, so i decided i would go out with someone else for a while, till he saw he needed to marry me. 2 days after this, he hid an engagement ring in my car, attached to a card. I did not find it for 3 weeks, and he had not bothered to call, and i didn't either, when i found it, i broke down, cause i wanted to go back, but, i couldn't..
In the middle of me trying to get even with him making me wait, i missed my birth control shot, and was almost four weeks pregnant by a guy i barely knew.
The ironic part, he asked me to marry him, the day he found out, and i have been miserable since. He is a nightmare, and i was an idiot!
revenge usually backfires that way, I was hurt and wanted to hurt him, instead I hurt us both even worse!
2007-10-13 17:25:02
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answered by Anonymous
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I slapped him.
We'd broken up for the billionth time, and while he was "begging me to come back" I found out that he'd been screwing this friend's little sister, not to mention a few others.
He had the nerve to call me a slut, and I decked him.
Not my proudest moment, and it was when I was 18 and I though we still had a chance of reconciliation. When I found that out, I seriously lost control.
I'm glad I did it in a way, because it got me past (I felt) the doormat status with this guy. I had gotten in so much trouble with family and friends with this guy because I thought I really loved him. I'd been with him two years and felt things would work out until this happened.
It's funny - when you are 18 - you think you know EVERYTHING. As you age, you start to realize you've not even scratched the surface when it comes to knowledge and common sense.
2007-10-13 18:17:42
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answered by Done 6
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When I found out my then-boyfriend (now ex, of course) was cheating on me, I didn't say anything. I acted like everything was okay for about two or three weeks, and he was dumb enough to think that all was well. I should have won an Academy Award for that performance.
{A little background: when things were good between us, our favorite "spontaneous" thing to do would be for one of us initiate sex on the other while they were sleeping...for example (sorry if I get too graphic here, folks), when he got into a deep sleep, I would orally pleasure him until he woke up ready to jump my bones, or he would do the same to me.}
So, on this particular night, I waited until he got drunk and passed out, and rubbed BenGay on his penis. Yup, BenGay. He became semi-"ready" while I was rubbing him, and he opened his eyes and smiled at me and motioned for me to get on top of him. I smiled at him coyly and continued to rub him. Well, it wasn't before too long before it dawned on him what I had done, and boy, was he mad! He was too drunk to really do much of anything but curse me out, but I didn't care. I told him that should teach him to quit sticking it everywhere, that next time he might stick it in the wrong thing and it will fall off, and now he knows how it would feel if it did. I moved out the same day, and I still chuckle when I think back on it!
2007-10-13 20:58:34
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answered by The Voice of Reason Is Silenced 5
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Wow, I just realized how many people lay on their backs for revenge. *blinks*
Anywho, I hit my ex, then we fought and yeah....now we yell at each other when ever we see each other.
But, for revenge, I'd say the most hateful thing I've done was called her mother and told her that I caught her having intercourse with a dog.
Fun times.
2007-10-13 17:20:03
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answered by Anonymous
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told a couple of my friends how he cried when "The OC" ended. and forwarded them the text message of him saying it. Word got around. hahaha.
It might not have been as equal as him going to a party and hooking up with some sl*t, but it was pretttttty darn close if you ask me ;-)
(he's a big preppy jock by the way)
2007-10-13 17:18:01
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answered by Blah Blah Blah 5
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well, I don't recomend this, as it will require a hospital vist on his part, but I caught my ex cheating, and I told him I fogave him, and he seemed to belive it, after much begging of forgiveness,(from him), and went he feel asleep that night, I put a lot of super glue on his hand, and quickly (before it dried) put his penIs, into his hand, so when he woke in the morning his hand was stuck to his penis, and I heard they had to use some kind of special solvent to get it unstuck! But can you imagine explaining that to the docters and nurse's! wish I could have been there to see that!
2007-10-13 17:19:36
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answered by leah j 4
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omg..where to begin??LOLOLOL!! Ok, I've done lots of bad things to exes back in the day...like slashing tires, silly string on cars, sleeping with their friends, ect. Oh, I once totally desrtoyed an antique Benz the guy owned..spray paint, slashed tires, egging it, you name it. But that prick deserved it and more!!
2007-10-13 17:22:53
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answered by Anonymous
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I never went for revenge. It makes you look desperate. In fact a smile or hello makes it harder for them then anything hateful.
Don't worry, you'll find another.
2007-10-13 17:18:50
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answered by Fancy You 6
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