If yes why yes?
If not why not?
2007-10-13 17:04:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
honestly, no. i mean, we're only 13, and i know he's not gonna be "the one" for me because we usually don't see eye to eye. he has told me numerous times to straighten my hair because it would be "prettier" and longer that way. he also dislikes gays, but i find nothing wrong with them,and he has not lived long enough to have already formed an opinion on such a serious matter! also, i have a problem with his lack of knowledge prior to my african heritage. he's always saying something media-influenced about africa. there are severakl other problems, but i will not go there.
you know what, this is just not working out!
2007-10-13 17:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by ipodlady231 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust your husband?
I was having some "si lai" chatting session with a female friend the other day and as usual we'd talk about shopping and work and husbands.....
So I happen to mention about the hubby sometimes need to travel overseas and she got this worried face on her when I mention that.
So she asked me if I "trust" my husband to go on business trips?
I said yes of course. Don't you??
She gave me an answer thats worth some thought. She said that yup she trust her husband fully.....but she dont trust other WOMEN.
I do understand what she is getting at. Married men somehow seems to be more desirable with their greying hair that portrays their wisdom and a fluffy wallet that spells out their wealth. And besides, married men are better at handling women and they know how to please them and are more tactful with words. Therefore women like to prey at these men.
The question is, how to keep your man loyal and faithful? Frankly, i dont think so there is an answer to that. The only one that have the powers to control them are the Almighty and his grace in abundance. But my take is that in order to be a good wife, a women should shrug off her Queen control nature. Women by default are possesive in nature and are control freaks.I see this as a total turn-off and will cause the man to want to "break-free". Therefore even before I got married, i've been very conscious over my actions and reactions in our relationship. I'm thankful that im not domineering by nature, nor am i impulsive. I'm quite demure in making decisions and I remain my calm when i sense a tense moment. Most of the time i'd just keep my mouth shut whenever i know i did something wrong, or rather when he thinks that i did something wrong. :P I may not agree with him all the time, but i'd just play along and say ok to whatever he wants.
So inferior meh??? So what? no face? come-on.... Just because i'm docile does not make me lesser of a women.
Im my 7 years of relationship, we've probably only have like 3 heated arguements that had tears streaming down my cheeks?? And frankly i couldn't even recall what was it about and when was the last time we argue over something. I'd say that is quite a good record isnt it? Of course i know its not entirely my part to play. Besides, It takes two to tango. Thus, I'm glad that the hubby is very understanding and basically knows when to pamper me like a princess and when to be the "head" and wear his pants. He is frankly, a great man whome I adore because he takes care of me well.
And of course, It helps that i married a geek. My only rival is probably the laptop!! :) I always tease him that his second wife's name is Compaq.
i hope this help my friend ^_^
2007-10-14 02:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by Newton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. He is so kind, thoughtful, and he always tells me and shows me that he loves me. Also, most of the people I meet who know him tell me that he is always talking about me and that they can tell he really loves me. It's also a feeling I have that I can trust him, and he never gives me a reason to mistrust.
I have had boyfriends that I couldn't trust even as far as I could throw them, so it is nice to finally have someone I do trust.
2007-10-13 17:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by sassylass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT as far as I can throw him, because of the almost 10 years we've been together, he has been really shady.
He has 8 kids. Only two are ours. All his kids are 10 and under. Do I really need to say more???
2007-10-13 17:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes we live to far away from each other for me not to.
2007-10-13 17:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because he has never given me any reason not to trust him
2007-10-13 17:07:22 · answer #6 · answered by 1hotmama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do. He's always been faithful and puts my interest before his own. He's a great guy!
2007-10-13 17:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Nels 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITELY ... he has RESPECTED me completely since we met ... and the fact that he spent the time making sure that MY Siblings felt comfortable enough to entrust their ONLY sister with him on a date (by making sure that they knew about him/his life)! He is NOT involved with anyone else .. and he has made sure that his family (and everyone else) knows that I am HIS girlfriend ... and treats me like a QUEEN (he shows EVERYONE my photo ... and just talks about me all the time -- I can't wait to see him over Christmas)! I KNOW he won't cheat ... it just is NOT in him at all (and everyone we know says he is definitely and completely in LOVE with me).
2007-10-13 17:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% absolutely, positively. He's the only member of the male species whom I've known since childhood, and we have NEVER, EVER lied to each other about anything.
2007-10-13 17:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I trust my husband completely. If he was going to do anything...stupid............ he would have done it already- we've been married 14 years.
2007-10-13 17:09:00 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋