the "talk" UGH.?

Question

At the moment im 13 years old .

and my mom still hasn't given me the talk , like the sex talk .

We have had little conversations here and there about little stuff but nothing major . Even in school we haven't talked about sex and all the other classes are!

I feel like sex is avoidng my life or something . Haha! , I don't need a talk cause im pretty well educated but damn its annoying.

Answer 1

I am 14 years old and never got the talk. I would highly suggest you talk to your mom/parents about it. I wish I would have gotten "the talk" because now I have a 3 month old daughter. It is very hard. Some parents dont feel they need to give there child the talk because they think they are good kids but that isnt always true.

Answer 2

I'm 14, and my mom hasn't done anything yet either. Honestly, I think she knows, I know, becuase my sister was a teen mom, and we had sex ed in school, and she never questioned it, she always signed the papers.
As long as you are educated by other things, it's your mom's choice, if she wants you to learn about the BIRDS AND THE BEES. =] Do you have an older sister?? If you do ask her if she ever gave HER the sex talk. I'm sure there is a reason your mom is holding off. She's just as embarrased as you are.

Answer 3

Definitely don't rush "the talk". Sex comes along soon enough! At 13, you should want sex to avoid you for several years, until you are married.

That said, I am hiding nothing from my kids. I answer all their questions. For us "the talk" may not ever happen, but may actually be spread out over several years in the form of just answering questions, or bringing up tidbits if the opportunity arises.

My 13 year old daughter had "talks" about a lot of different things during our recent cross-country move. She was my "prisoner", riding in my car while the other kids were the van with Mom. We talked about a LOT of things, though the "plumbing" issues I think you are referring to were not brought up--I've answered enough of her questions in the past. I talked more about relationships, boys, careers, etc. Some of it she found interesting, some of it she found pretty embarrassing.

I'm not afraid to talk about sex. But hang in there, be patient with your mom. It isn't easy for everyone.

Answer 4

Parents figure if they never tell their kids about sex, they won't know it exists and won't get into any trouble. We all know how well THAT turns out. How many "I'm 14 and pregnant, now what" questions have YOU seen here this week?

Let's see, I've had to give the talk to 3 sisters, 7 or 8 cousins, and about 200 assorted other kids over the years because their parents wouldn't and I seem to be the only person willing to. Wonder how many teen pregnancies I've prevented so far?

If anyone who reads this was hoping for information on "the talk", go to these educational web sites.

http://www.sexetc.org
http://www.scarleteen.com
http://www.puberty101.com

Answer 5

Some mothers feel weird talking to their girls about sex ,and some think they dont need to.If you want to talk to her about it ,make it a girls day out with your mom.Tell her that your ready to hear it.I sure hope your not having sex though.Seriously wait...It's not as exciting as its made out to be when your too young.I know youve probably heard this a million times and are sick of it.But take it from me i have my first baby girl at 15,and i just had another one(im now 19,almost 20)and having sex isnt worth that kind of responsibility at that age.Dont get me wrong i love her to death but i wish i would have waited.Just dont believe everything your friends say.If you ever have n e questions you can email me n e time [e-mail] ..I am an online counselor(totally confidential)for teenage girls.And i will answer any questions u may have.So for all you young women out there,don't be afraid to give me a shout.

Answer 6

Meh, i never got a proper sex education until about gr.9 and by then i was mostly self educated. It seams today the adults of our society pussyfoot arround the issue of sex.

Answer 7

I dont comprehend how your gonna take this style of honesty, yet your moms a bitter, twisted scum bag with too many head-f*cks to toughen a baby, its no longer your fault in any respect, she's an absolute shame to parenting and doesnt deserve a daughter like you. What do you should do? Run away, come across a thanks to start up a existence of your own, one which she's no longer element of so she will't ruin it and produce you down. All that $hit on the top there she suggested about your freinds makes me sick to the tummy, she deserved a slap contained in the face from you after that. i wish you realize that she's in basic terms asserting that because she needs to imagine of the most hurtful element obtainable to assert to you, there is easily no truth in it, she in basic terms feels so depressing about being the bitter previous hag she is that she has to make up for it by technique of bringing her beautiful, youthful daughter down. imagine about it, she's a washed up, indignant, wrinkled, jaded previous mess who's f*cked contained in the pinnacle and who's wasted her existence, how threatening ought to that is, and how jeaous ought to she get to verify you - a cushty, wonderful, beautiful, social, relaxing, bubbly, skill crammed woman with freinds and a existence to stay and the finished relax of your existence previous to you, making her look a lot worse and taking each and every of the spotlight? Its a shame your mums like that angel, yet pondering she is, it style of feels noticeably sparkling that you will be more suitable ideal of with out her, i wish you may artwork something out, you extremely shouldn't ought to post with being dealt with like that.

Answer 8

well in a way your blessed and in a way not. all my life and this still is true now at nearly 30 years old and i am married i still get the safe sex lecture. but its what my mom does she wasnt taught anything so she strives to keep me informed. i plan to do the same to a lesser extent with my son and daughters. i want them to know they can come to me with any and everything with no fear

Answer 9

Let her give u the talk...listen to her carefully even if u think that u know all this. U may have some qs...ask her those...

This is ur mom's duty to ensure that u have safe sex....so dont get bothered by it.

Answer 10

i knew about sex before my mom told me when i was in the fifth grade (10) but i didnt tell her that. im 13 now and my little sister is in fifth grade and my mom wants to read the "how babies are made" book with her soon.