we have a 12 year old girl, two 9 year old girls, and an 8 year old boy. So right now we stay up late and when we go to bed either the girls go to their room with their freinds and the boys get the front room, or the other way around, there young so I'm not so woried, but they are getting older( like the kids sneaking out) and I'm just wondering what other people that have boys and girls do when their kids have friends spend the night.anyy help would be great.
2007-10-13 15:39:39 · 8 answers · asked by lee b 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
only allow one child to have friends over at a time. 4 weekends a month 4 kids. and one friend at a time. unless your allowing a slumber party and again make it one kid and send the boy to a friends house if possible when the girls have friends over. the girls could do a combined party
2007-10-13 15:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the 12 year old boy has friends over, they sleep outside in the tent (conviently located outside our bedroom window...) and our 9 year old girl up in her room. If it is cold then boys upstairs and then 9 year old on the couch with privledges like eating popcorn and watching a movie later than bedtime or something like that.
2007-10-13 15:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Kari S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If my daughter is having the sleep over, I hang out with my boy and he will sleep with me that night. If my boy is having the sleep over then my daughter hides in her room with the door locked. She comes out a lot to mess with the boys but the runs back to her safe heaven. the boys are usually between 6 and 9 year olds. she is 11.
2007-10-13 16:28:05 · answer #3 · answered by Bones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 12 i had a friend that was my age and she had an older brother who was a few years older. me and her had a sleepover one night and him and his friends were in the same area as us. after everyone fell asleep i was molested by her older brother. so it kinda scares me, but not all kids are like that. just be careful on letting boys and girls sleep in the same area when they are getting older.
2007-10-14 17:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by karamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god no! at 13..that the top reason cus i ought to you recognize finally end up with a newborn..they could in no way enable that and that i'm 17. while i improve into sixteen i spent assorted nights at my bfs place for the reason that he improve into older(21) and that i improve into combating with my mothers and dads on the time, that in the time of hassle-free terms made it worse nonetheless they weren't very happy with it. No offense yet while your for actual i think of your mothers and dads are slightly loopy in the event that they enable her stay over(it is that if it improve into in the previous the newborn improve into born different smart i comprehend) perhaps in case you were older and that they enable her stay that could have been alright from my potential. cus at 13 maximum young toddlers are in simple terms beginning courting no longer having intercourse
2016-10-22 08:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by neher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking about this the other day too. My really good friend is a guy, we are the same age , but I also hang out with his sister (who is younger then me by a few years) she wanted me to sleepover, but I thought this could be realy ackward!
2007-10-13 15:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by Victoria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me, why seperate them you have wasted 5 points and some time in asking this question. Don't seperate them it will lead to mistrust and hidden anger.
2007-10-13 16:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when me and my friends go over to each others house we usually pick on the brothers....we pick on my twin brother at my house, we pick on someone elses little brother at her house and then ya its pretty fun to do that sometimes.
2007-10-13 15:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋