Well a few weeks ago I took my best friend over to meet my ex/ friend. They got along pretty good and a few days later, they started going out. I'm not sure if i'm jealous or not, but i shouldn't be because i'm the one who broke up with him one day after we went out and i found out he was cheating on me. So my question is, why would i be jealous, because i think i might be.
2007-10-13 14:18:57 · 7 answers · asked by γσυ мєαи єህєяγтнìиɠ тσ sσмєσиє❤ 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I think I'd be more upset if my best friend began dating one of my ex's. I mean isnt that the cardinal rule...to never date your best friend's ex?? Its where they got the term "sloppy seconds" from. Maybe youre feeling a bit betrayed by her as well? I think it could also be a little bit of jealousy but remember you broke up with him there had to have been a reason right (cuz he's a dog!)? Stick to your guns but if you still feel weird about it I'd talk to your best friend. Guys come and go but a best friend is hard to find!
Good luck!
2007-10-13 14:25:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone on the rebound, as you are right now, will often be over-sensitive about their exes finding someone new. Why bother pining over a guy who thinks cheating is an okay thing to do to someone? That's a sign of a guy with no real guts! He's the type who has to hold onto one, while he checks out another, as either or, is for back-up, should either one fall through! Like how lame is that? He wants to have one and get one at the same time. That's double-dealing and that's ugly! This is a dishonest individual feeling justified he can operate that way. He lacks respect for others and he very likely has no self-respect either. People like that don't really believe in themselves or feel worthy enough to be true to one person, as deep down inside, they don't feel they deserve to be loved, for whatever reason. Maybe his mom or dad didn't hug him enough. But forget playing psychiatrist, he's no catch! Let her have him! He'll more than likely do the same to her, wait and see! Move on, go forward in life. Never return to the scene of the first failed attempt! Odds are, if it wasn't good then, it won't be any better going through it again! You'll heal your rough edges with time. Focus on other things, other people, as this'll all pass! Take care!
2007-10-13 22:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarily u being jealous ur probably hurt because ur BEST friend is dating ur ex I know I"m alittle older than u most likely but that's just not something that REAL friends do to each other. Ex's are suppose to be off limits. Maybe u should talk to the both fo them and them know how u feel.
2007-10-20 16:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by thecinnamon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i do not agree for the best friend to be dating your ex. does she know the reason for the break up. and you you shouldn't be jealous unless you still have feeling for the guy. you would be because he was yours once now he is not and you will still remember what you share with him and miss that and then seeing another person with him you are going to wonder if that relationship is better than what you first had and you will be wondering what they are doing together. but let me say you left him because he was cheating try to get over it and move on.
2007-10-13 22:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by sidjae g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bestfriend dated this really great guy. I was going through a whole bunch of **** and she suggested I talk to him. On the friend tip we talked. Everytime we had a conversation i felt bad and told her so. It felt wrong to just be talking to her ex. She told me if he wanted to persue a relationship go for it she didn't mind. later I found out she did mind because she was still in love with him. Point, it's never a good idea to go out with a friends ex. Just because you broke up with him doesn't make how you felt about him in the first place any different.
2007-10-13 21:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may be jelious because u no ur ex found someone else and its not you. that happens to a lot of girls. it must be akward seeing ur friend and ex going out.
2007-10-13 21:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by BeAcHBaBe1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
prehaps you like to be in control..or you are worried that your friend may get hurt by this guy or that she and him may work out better than you did you shouldn't worry it's his loss
2007-10-13 21:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋