should I do?
He told me so that he wouldn't be "cheating" on me, and I'd rather him not do it behind my back ... but, really, do I NEED to watch?
Should I just tell him to go somewhere alone with the guy?
Or should I just get him a video of two men having sex to see how he reacts before he goes through with this?
2007-10-13 14:14:22 · 28 answers · asked by Reserved 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If your husband thinks he's bi & wants to try it with another man, tell him sure, as long as you get to watch, but tell him you don't to watch two guys, tell him he has to dress-up like a girl & then he can do another man, tell him that he can do as many men as he wants, but only if he's dressed as a female & tell him if he looks cute enough, you'll take some photos & maybe a video of him playing with his new friends.
jak
2007-10-13 23:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never let my husband have that level of intimacy with anyone else, male or female. Whether you watch or not, your marriage is not going to work out. You should face that now before the pain of it is greatly exaggerated by such an event.
2007-10-17 13:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by AW922 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is cheating..do u honestly feel comfortable letting him go with some man some where to have sex? Do u not feel betrayed? I dont share well..so i guess im not a good person to answer this question.
2007-10-13 14:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its cheating regardless if you want my opinion. Has he at least experimented a toy or some type of "stimulation" in that region? Donate a toy, or try the femdom deal with a you know what.
2007-10-17 06:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Robbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. It doesn't get much simpler than that. If you want to watch two men in porn get it on, to see how it is, then do so.
But if you are 110% not interested, tell him so.
Just know that nothing you do is going to change his bisexual nature...so, maybe it's time for you to move on, and let him be!
;-)
2007-10-13 14:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i- go see a divorce attourney fast. 2 move too hell out fast and we mean run really fast like the wind. 3 this thing your married to needs help fast. 4 he married you for better or worse.5- if you play up to this sick fantasy your needing a nut ward at belview.6- get out of this broken downe marriage fast.
2007-10-13 16:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this discussion ,should been up before marriage.
Now what to do?
Run and don't look back.
i been married for 18 yrs and we have two children ,if this conversation ever came up,i would give him my blessing and
show him the Door.
im not sure what's the confusion here,you married a man for yourself only ,now he wants to find out if he wants to play Fudge Pecker ,and you asking should you watch?
Are you nut's?
2007-10-13 14:22:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your husband's definition of "cheating" is radically different than mine.
My definition of cheating is having a romantic or sexual relationship with someone other than your spouse or partner.
So, I think he would be cheating. That is an issue all in its own.
As to you watching.........that is up to you. It's your husband and it's your marriage. I don't think anyone of us can advise you here...that is an extremely personal situation.
I wish you luck.
2007-10-13 14:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by artistagent116 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Husband ? Married ? = 1 man and 1 woman, a different man or woman, or addition man or woman = divorce and leave quick.
2007-10-15 09:55:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, sounds like an incredible night in the offing.
Would you like me to keep you company while we watch?
2007-10-13 15:54:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋