I don't if anyone else has experienced this but when my boyfriend and I have intercourse and I'm about to reach orgasm I can feel a little leakage. I don't know if it is coming from the vagina or the clitoris. And it only happens when I am climaxing. Does anyone out there think this is a problem?
2007-10-13 13:57:08 · 28 answers · asked by amber j 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
no alot of women experience it, some call it squirting which is a phenomenom but it seems yours is pretty light while some women shoot out up to 2-3 feet. you may mistake it for peeing they have info on it on internet and some books you should read up on it but if you have anymore questions just send me a email at decannadys01@yahoo.com
2007-10-13 14:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by decannadys01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't a medical problem. If it were, you wouldn't be able to have an orgasm even by yourself. The answer lies in different parts. First of all, in order to have an orgasm you must be in the right state of mind, namely relaxed, happy, and at peace. That's easily achieved alone. You learn how to pleasure yourself, and since you already love yourself, you're already one step ahead of the game and can orgasm much more easily. When you're with men, they have to learn about you. They have to figure out what you like and dislike, unless you tell them. Also, the teenage set hasn't fully matured yet. I'm sure a good portion of the boys you've come across haven't even figured out how to pleasure themselves and probably fell asleep in human biology class. I question whether a 15 year old even knows what a clitoris is, let alone how to find one. So part of the problem is that the enthusiasm of a child doesn't equal the skill or knowledge of a master. Second, starting with being 15, you were still developing. Now that you're 18, you are still developing. Research has proven that women mature sexually in their 30's and 40's. Men mature sexually when they are in their late teens and early to mid 20's. So part of the problem could be that the boys you've selected either a> aren't fully developed either physically or emotionally, or b> your body is still developing and changing and you're still learning about yourself as well as what brings you ecstasy. Third, the pressure of having sex in the modern age is murder on relationships. The reason to have sex with someone is to connect with them in such a profound way as to develop a loving bond, not just in a physical way, but also in a spiritual way. Physically, you could end up making a baby. I'm sure that is dancing around in the back of your head somewhere, and it affects your ability to relax and enjoy the experience. Also, there is the whole business of STDs. I question whether you've found true love yet, even though it is possible, and I'm sure you've given thought to making sure that you're healthy enough to have sex. I hope that you've made good use of condoms. They do help protect you from such things. In short, If you can have an orgasm alone, you don't have a medical issue. What you have is psychological interference. What you experience alone is possible with a mate. You just need to be open to it, and in some cases, you actually have to be the teacher. You are the master of your own body. Tell your mate what you want and how you want it. If you want the guy to figure it out, you must be in the right frame of mind for it and you must be open to new experiences.
2016-05-22 07:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masters &Johnson wrot the definitive book about this, did all the experiments and found how it worked.
a: female does actually ejac some fluid from up a few inches
b: if excited enough, will let a little urine flow, cant help it. (rather like why u have to have an enema just before childbirth)
BUT as the other said,what the hell, go for it, shout Geronimo & flood the bed, the men do and they never worry.
2007-10-13 14:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by expat 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not a problem at all. Some women think that they are actually peeing, but they are actually just climaxing. This is the female version of ejaculation, and you are very lucky to be able to reach it during intercourse. (not many women can)
2007-10-13 17:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by bethieb163 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely not a problem.
Through popularity, it's known as "squirting", depending on the velocity of the "leakage".
It's caused when there's a certain amount of friction over the..(once again through popularity) "G-Spot"
It causes your body to "Squirt" or "Leak" depending on the Orgasm.
Female Ejaculation ranges with different people, it can squirt quite a distance, gush or simply dribble.
It's most definitely nothing to worry about, just go with it and enjoy it.
2007-10-13 14:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication from Vagina. Many women have SOME ejaculate... RARE for them to actually squirt, but some fluid produced is normal
Your fluids will mix with his no problem
2007-10-13 14:00:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are only a few women who can do that. I'm lucky to have been with 2 of them, and I feel very fortunate to have done so. I LOVE it, and I hope that you will take advantage of your ability! Enjoy!
2007-10-13 14:02:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have a google for "female ejaculation" it's perfectly normal.
You should be pleased, it is my experience that girls who do this also appear to have the most intense orgasms. That's one lucky boyfriend!
2007-10-13 13:59:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say you are just fine and I would also say that this is normal. I would also say that you are becoming more aroused and this can cause extra fluid to flow to keep you wet. The female can ejaculate also. It is good that you are excited by your boyfriend.
2007-10-13 14:13:57 · answer #9 · answered by TLG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard of something like that before... might be a problem... how would we really know though? I'd ask a doctor next time you go in for a check up.
2007-10-13 14:01:57 · answer #10 · answered by accountant 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋