I have not one person out there who honestly loves me or is even there for me. What makes life worth living?
2007-10-13 12:00:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What make life worth living for you? it is a very individual choose.
You do have one person and the most important one at that and the is YOU! You had better care for yourself (not, narcissisticly) love yourself. If you don't no one else may. You have got to find what you enjoy then do that and get over the irrational belief that you must be loved to enjoy life. I have gone years with out a love interest and was as happy as one can be. I did the things i enjoyed and didn't have to have any concern that someone else may want my time and attention. No special gifts to find. I made Thanks Giving dinner for my self with the works and didn't have to be concerned about what someone else wanted. Although i might have desired having the company of a love one i sure as hell didn't need it to be happy. For life to be worth living.
You have got to be INdependent NOT dependent as many wrongly believe.
2007-10-13 12:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by gdc 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has different ideas on what makes life worth living, it is a very personal thing. In my opinion, I think you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and take some time off from trying to find "that special someone". Concentrate on YOUR life and find things that make YOU happy and make you a better person, other than the presence of other people. Find a hobby that you enjoy or join a group of people that share some of your interests. You have to be able to know what makes you happy and love yourself before you can expect anyone else to want to know and love you.
Good luck.
2007-10-13 12:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jessi B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A worthwhile and meaningful life is worth living.
Well, the need to be loved and wanted is universal. If you think no one really loves you at the moment, think again. God loves you and of course you love yourself. If no human person loves you, get a pet like a cat or a dog or cute bunnies that you can take care of. Pets cheers people.
If you want real people to love you, be lovable like being nice to them and avoiding things that irritates them. It's the simple things that build up over time that kills love. In the same manner, little shows of affection for others could grow into love. Love begets love.
Winning the hearts of small kids is a lot easier and worthwhile too. Join wholesome clubs/groups like in the church to meet friends who could love you too. You may want to start patching up and bonding with family member you grew apart with coz blood is always thicker than water.
Try any, it may work for you......
2007-10-13 12:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one would ever love you according to your expectations. We are humans uncapable of showing unconditional love. I don't care how good we are, how honest and caring we try to be. The way each one of us love the persons in our lives will never satisfy anyone. Love doesn't make life worth living for. It's a condition outside of you.
What makes life worth living for comes from within you. Learn to love yourself for who you are.
;-)
2007-10-13 12:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bright Light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before I answer your question let me ask you one.......Do you love yourself or are you there for yourself? Life is only worth living if you make it. My life used to be a mere existence not a life at all. What changed that for me was when I turned my life over to GOD. Because of this turnover HE gave me meaning and showed me how to truly love myself for myself, faults and all. By loving myself I am there for myself and love living.
2007-10-13 12:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by pllbrn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u stay on this earth, u can find someone who will honestly love you and who will be there for you. U have 2 try and find that someone. there are many other reasons of living SEX, if u die then u wont enjoy it. So think before u do something stupid
2007-10-13 12:32:50 · answer #6 · answered by SUNSHiNE♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drugs, alcohol, and money. yay. and I personally don't believe all that crap people say about finding yourself. maybe you've already found yourself, and that's who you are. Idonno. you believe what you want to believe. a good way to forget about how empty your life is, is to work as much as possible. and if not having anybody love you is that big of a deal, well then just think, you can only go up from here.
2007-10-13 12:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends Family One Special Guy ♥
2016-05-22 06:50:38 · answer #8 · answered by amada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The journey. I'm so sorry for all of us that have to make the trip alone. You have to try to connect with people and make a family for yourself. You have to believe that you are loved by God, when there is no one else. Hug for you. Keep your chin up.
C. :)!!
2007-10-13 12:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Charlie Kicksass 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You loving yourself is the "most" important love there is. If one can't love themselves then how do you expect anyone else to love you? Perhaps you just need a change of pace? Change of scenary? Career change? Talk with God? I'm being very serious.
2007-10-13 12:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by OMGiamgoingNUTS 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋