I was riding on the bus today for a feild trip and my friend was talking to one of out guy friends. She was talking about how she liked another girl and talking about her like "cause she's pretty and awsome" and stuff like that. I really didn't think she was talking about me...
but later that ride she and a diffrent guy friend were talking quietly and out of no where she goes, "Marissa, I want you." I was a little confused at first so I just gave a tiny laugh like what? So she says "I mean I really want you."
So now I have no idea what to do... I mean I want to think that she was just kidding about that... but what if she wasnt? she didn't say something like 'just kidding' or something... >.<
Should I start talking about a guy that I happen to like now, even though I really dont want to tell anyone that I like him... grrr what do I DO?!
p.s. I have absolutly NOTHING against gays. this is my second friend who is bi-sexual or gay, just the first time someone has liked me...
2007-10-13 11:15:07 · 5 answers · asked by Marissa 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you should try doing some small things with her, like gentle kissing and holding hands. you might find that you like it. think, she's already your friend...if you two were lovers, what more would you need?
2007-10-13 15:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Hall + Oates 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As uncomfortable as it might make you feel, you should just talk to her about what happened on the bus. Ask her what she meant and if she does confirm what she said as not being a joke, then just tell her that you're friends and you're straight. Tell her that you don't think of her that way but that you love being her friend.
Just be honest with her. She may be confused or just have a crush on you. If you're honest with her, it will pass. If you just ignore it, she may keep crushing on you.
Best of luck!
Peace,
Jenn
2007-10-13 11:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by jenn_smithson 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear that you don't have feelings for her- but that you would be willing to remain friends. If she is willing to do that then I think yall will be okay. But, if you can- still be her friend- she has taken a big step and needs all the support she can get.
2007-10-13 11:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that although you value your friendship, that's all it is. There is no possibility of anything more. Speak pleasantly and privately and she will get the message. If she keeps pestering you, she is no friend.
2007-10-13 11:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by tentofield 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her your straight and nothing will happen.
Be truthful, it's for the best.
2007-10-13 11:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Flash 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋