thier past or thier after the marriage
2007-10-13 09:57:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
cheating on me ........insulting me and women ingeneral
edit: knowing women before me
2007-10-13 10:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a very interesting question. I don't think there's a really straight easy answer. Personally, my spouse's past is not mine. If he made mistakes, repented and God forgave, that's the end of that past. I believe trust is a big issue, and I would hope my spouse wouldn't break my trust in any shape or form. However, forgivness is a bigger issue. I know a lot of people said cheating is the end of the relationship, but I've to disagree. I understand what they are talking about, and I could have the same feeling at the heat of the moment, but if the person repents and God forgives, who am I not to forgive? If the tables were turned, wouldn't we want our spouses to forgive us? It might take a while to get the trust back, but marriage vows include "till death do us part" Before we can judge what we won't forgive our spouses, we have to think what we would like them to forgive us, then make decisions.
2007-10-13 19:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by nfldrod 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've children and that i imagine if there's a threat this may nicely be a one and purely time then you actually could evaluate giving him a threat. convinced, it truly is a foul component he's done and it may take years for you to go back to what you observe as 'primary' yet when there is threat you may forgive then imagine about it. some would disagree with me yet i did purely that, i determined that the marraige changed into truly worth holding at the same time notwithstanding it truly is been particularly confusing. For her? there is not any reason to forgive her, she would not deserve it and that i could shrink her out of your existence one hundred% in case you probably did make up at the same time with her how could you ever believe her and your husband? What takes position at the same time as she makes use of an excuse to drop something of yours at your domicile at the same time as your out? you want to get this women human beings out of your existence so she has no reason to be everywhere close for your husband, then if she is you understand the position you stand with both one among them. Having someone to direct all of your anger to truly than your husband would also help you restore your marraige.
2016-10-09 04:13:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The breaking of my trust. If I was married and my husband broke my trust in any way or lied to me then I would never ever forgive him and curse him to hell.
I could forgive anything almost past or present but I couldn't and wouldn't stand beside someone who broke my trust even a little bit. I think even if it starts of a little bit then it eats away at your heart and eventually turns into a monster.
2007-10-13 14:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless my spouse was some "outrageous criminal" who is still wanted by the law, then his past wouldn't be of concern to me. Within his "present" marriage to me, I would not accept the transmission of disease and being unfaithful to me. These factors would not be, in any way, "forgivable."
2007-10-13 11:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I also could not forgive cheating. Trust is earned and if its broken you cn't fix that. Even if he stays fathful the trust is broken.
2007-10-13 17:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by didderjiddit 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will never forgive my wife for marrying me.
2007-10-13 10:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Eratosthenes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
AFTER MARRIAGE HAVING A AFFAIR.
2007-10-13 10:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by HI 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if we really loved each other true love,
i will 4give her whtever she does,
she is not an angel ,
in the meanwhile i know she loves me as uch as i luv her so she will never let me down,
i have strong faith in her and vice versa.
2007-10-13 13:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by muslim-doctor 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Cheating and physical abuse.
2007-10-14 00:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by sublime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋